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Author:  Jthesly [ Wed Jun 23, 2010 9:14 pm ]
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What are your best moves to get her to that point where she gets really aroused and there is no stopping.

Author:  minsok [ Thu Jun 24, 2010 9:52 am ]
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From another topic I posted on: Building arousal is something you learn with experience and it's much easier to do it physically than any other way. I've never met a girl that doesn't like being bitten on the neck, especially the back. If she lets you have her tits, you'll want to focus on the nipples and listen to how she responds. Some girls are more sensitive than others and like it when you run your fingernails over her nipples from pinky to forefinger, some girls like having their nipples bitten, licking is a pretty safe bet. Stroking her stomach and ass usually helps out because these are places she associates with sex because that's the only time they get stimulated. When you kiss, lick the opening of her lips like it's oral sex. One girl I was with practically creamed when I licked her armpit (yeah, I have no shame).

I could go on and on. Yeah, really, you have to pay attention to the girl and when she makes her little noises. If she's totally silent, she doesn't like what you're doing. If she gasps or something, I like to just growl, "Good?" or "Right there?" in her ear to make sure I didn't just tickle her or something. This is also good because it opens up dialogue and encourages her to tell you when you do something she likes. Just be relaxed with it, when I'm in this mode, I prefer to have the girl on her back with me laying on my side next to her; this gives you good access to all of her. It's also a turn on if you climb on her and sort of simulate sex. I like to have her on her stomach for that because it makes me seem even more dominant. If you're totally lost, ask her what she likes. Girls sometimes like to train a guy and she might even open up more for you. Talk to her and drop a compliment every now and then, it helps the intimacy. Just don't talk too much, that kills the mood; you don't want her to be thinking at all. Whew, really this shit doesn't miss.

Also, lay on your back and pull her on top of you with her legs apart. Or sit upright and have her straddle you. Surprise her by getting up, turning and laying on top of her, all without disconnecting her legs from around your waist. Guide her hand to your cock if all else fails. She'll be really likely to feel around if you took the time to shave the balls and shaft totally smooth.

Author:  RSDSkittles [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 11:02 am ]
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You mean when you are already in bed together?

Just caress her. And don't touch the hotspots. Don't touch her nipples, don't touch her pussy. Go around it. That'll build giant arousal. Touch her lips with yours but don't kiss. Touch her breasts gentle, but not the nipples, etc.
Also a soft touch is good for starting, it'll make them crazy. Back, neck, legs and belly are gold. Sometimes one finger on her back does more then a whole hand. Build this big desire, but the key rule is not to give in fast. Tease her for a long time. She wont be able to handle it and eventually will ask you to take her.

Author:  minsok [ Sat Jun 26, 2010 9:12 am ]
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Huh... maybe I'll try that sometime. You're the kind of guy that eats on china with an array of knives and forks. I'm the kind of guy that eats out of the pot; without silverware if possible.

Author:  'Vlad' [ Sat Jun 26, 2010 4:00 pm ]
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Huh... maybe I'll try that sometime. You're the kind of guy that eats on china with an array of knives and forks. I'm the kind of guy that eats out of the pot; without silverware if possible.
comedy gold!

Author:  Lemon88 [ Sat Jun 26, 2010 6:54 pm ]
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Math is spot on.

Teasing as a whole is just about the best foreplay you can possibly produce. Start off soft going close to various erogenous zones. Keep teasing her until she almost can't take it anymore, then gradually become more and more direct and finally just go rampant (while still keeping your cool, you don't wanna blow your lid from your own arousal routine lol).

I once brought my gf at the time to the point of orgasm just by teasingly caressing her back, shoulders and ass (mostly going from her neck down to the small of her back/top of the ass). Not meant as bragging, but simply an example of what you achieve by being attentive.

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