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Author:  thelenzel [ Fri Apr 16, 2010 2:16 am ]
Post subject:  How to recover??

Ok... so today was my first day with my new girlfriend from school (Same classroom)
So, in all day I didn't said a single word to her, I did very few, but not like we used to, I barely looked at her? Why.. I dont' know I was nervous...
So when we got out, she texted me "Today was a little uncomfortable and stressful dont you think?"
I agreed with her, and I said that it would't always be like this, t trust me. Then she said she didn't think she could do it (Same classroom relationship)...
I then sent her a very long message that we love each other, and we should give each other a chance, that its better to try and fail than not try and told her to think about it we'll talk tommorow.
So I realized my huge mistake just a few hours ago, I mean how can I be so stupid, all my friends said if their boyfriend wouldn't talk to them they would feel awkward and uncomfortable even dissapointed.
A friend of mine suggested that first thing in the morning I take her up and tell her the truth about today, that I was nervous, and tell her to give us a chance, just try then just kiss her.
A male friend said to just go and treat her like it didn't happened, just kiss her, and treat her like always.
I know my options, and I know what I can and have to do, I'm just so mad at me for doing that... I mean, we even had like 1 hour free, and we all went to the mall and I barely talked to her ...
How can I recover from this mistake, and just keep going on the relationship?

Author:  rokr [ Tue Apr 20, 2010 6:26 pm ]
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I would go with the treat it like it didn't happen at first approach then later follow up with a little whisper in her ear while hugging from behind if you get the chance, "hey baby, sorry about the awkwardness yesterday, i was just a little stressed out and showed it in the wrong areas." give a simple peck and then move on. No need to dwell on it and stress out on it.

Second, I would refrain from the word "love" for a while if this is a new girlfriend. Some girls actually get freaked out by it.

If you tell her you were nervous, from that point on she will have a third eye to see if you're acting weird or not due to nervousness and start calling you out on it every time. That's what happened w/ me and my girlfriend but thank God we recovered from that mess. Don't DLV ;)

Now this was posted 4 days ago so in those 4 days a lot could have happened. But I hope I was of help to you. Good luck!

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