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| Author: | 1hitaquitter [ Mon Sep 10, 2007 8:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | what is the diffrence between IOIs n politeness? |
is there a difference? what is it? Thanks guys |
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| Author: | North [ Mon Sep 10, 2007 1:45 pm ] |
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The difference between IOI and politeness is the body language. The body does not lie. |
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| Author: | Methuselah [ Mon Sep 10, 2007 2:57 pm ] |
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Polite is one compliment, smile, touch, etc. IOIs are several of them in a short period of time. |
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| Author: | duck [ Mon Sep 10, 2007 4:26 pm ] |
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Politeness is a smile or "your a nice guy" IOI is her naked legs wrapped around your head - like she is riding on your shoulders - only facing the wrong way. |
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| Author: | jinla [ Mon Sep 10, 2007 4:46 pm ] |
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There is no difference! If she's nice to you, you can f her! Nah, just kidding (mostly). But when in doubt, assume its interest. I always look for preening. That seems to be almost 100% accurate. Just make sure it is for you. |
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| Author: | 1hitaquitter [ Mon Sep 10, 2007 5:16 pm ] |
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wow thats great. heres the stituation: there is this girl who i've known for awhile and shes really nice to me and she gave me a crad for my for my birthday and she wrote all this stuff about being there for me and she loves me and even gave her number(which i never gotten before) she is like older than me and i only see her about onve a month or even once every teo monthes. i think i get IOIs but it could just be that shes is really nice or shes intrested. Another question is there a difference between JUST being nice and IOI's? and what about girls who are just generally nice? Thanks a bunch. |
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| Author: | jbs10 [ Mon Sep 10, 2007 5:19 pm ] |
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You're looking way too deep into it, whatever happens happens. |
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| Author: | duck [ Mon Sep 10, 2007 5:23 pm ] |
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Is she nice to everyone or just to you? It's kind of like porn - I can't define it but I know when I see it. I guess the easiest way to help is give me a very specific instance and it's context - we'll go from there. Woman touches you - can be both but more likely it's an IOI. Woman laughs at your joke - harder to tell are you funny? That's where the context comes in. Some are very obvious - touching of her hair or chest while talking to you, hand lingering on your arm/leg or if (for some reason) there is a high five and you interlock fingers. If she comes up and starts to pet you (happens to me - get the hand swipe across my back as she walks by (hired gun)) or maybe footsie under the table. Not so obvious - the dilated pupils (dark environments cause this as well). |
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| Author: | jinla [ Mon Sep 10, 2007 6:20 pm ] |
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hitaquitter, yes these are IOIs. Giving you a card shows that she is thinking about you when you are not around (which is what they want/like us to do). She is making the mistake of treating you the way a girl would want to be treated. Which obviously hasn't had the full effect. Giving you her number was her way of saying I want to see you again, without her having to come out and say it. Its like signing a high school year book and saying "keep in touch" with your phone number below. You should call her. I will say this though, giving you a card tells me that she sees you as bf material rather than just a casual hook up. If you are just in it for the hook up, you must decide if playing with her emotions is something you are willing to do. I make no judgment either way, but personally I tend not to game girls who are genuinely straight forward with me. Just a thought |
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| Author: | 1hitaquitter [ Mon Sep 10, 2007 8:13 pm ] |
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thanks but she is genrally nice to everyone but this is the second time i've gotten a card from her. even when we took pictures she rather stand next to me then her boyfriend. ya she has a boyfriend who is a complete dork. but whatever. i'd like to think she likes me but i still think not because i am leaving for japan in a week for college and cant help to think its a one time thing. but what happenes happens. and she is like 7 yrs older than me. |
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