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| Author: | hiimnotcool [ Mon Apr 05, 2010 8:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Freeze out or try to regain attraction? |
So I've been talking to 3-4 girls in the last couple weeks but I was mostly interested in one because she qualified herself a lot. It seemed like a legit LTR potential and I was taking it really slow, doing my own thing with other girls, and showing her a great time each time we hung out. We also f closed the first night we met. Fast forward to this last Saturday...I invited her to a party with my friends and she accepted. We were all getting really drunk and one of my 'friends' was being obnoxious. He kept going on and on about trivial things so I got fed up and started screaming at him. Told him to shut the F up and fight if he was going to keep going. According to my friends she looked pretty terrified. I texted her the next morning saying I was sorry for my behavior (I know apologizing is AFC but I legitimately meant it. That type of thing isn't how I usually act). Anyways, I just said 'Sorry about last night, that wasn't a good representation of my typical character. Hopefully we're still cool.' She texted back about 7 or 8 hours later saying 'I hate to sound overdramatic but honestly I'm pretty sure we're not cool. I understand you were hammered because we've all been there, but I just didn't like the person I saw last night.' I texted back after that just saying 'Yeah, I don't blame you. I think last night was a turning point for me in regards to too much alcohol because it's not worth the problems caused. Just know I'm legitimately sorry.' And that's it....never got a response. My plan was to completely freeze her out and give her some time to miss hanging out. What would some of the more experienced members do in this situation? It's amazing to me how one screw up can negate every other time you hung out and had fun. |
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| Author: | droola [ Tue Apr 27, 2010 1:26 pm ] |
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blowing up at your friend - not good txting sorry - also bad, even if you did mean it txting back after the reply - worse Move on, you f*ed up and that's it. Done it may times, and I'm pretty sure I'll do it again, nowhere near a PUA but that's my interpretation. |
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| Author: | Callum [ Tue Apr 27, 2010 1:52 pm ] |
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^^Thats Gospel, you done fucked up^^ keep it moving |
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| Author: | Mark&Ian [ Tue May 04, 2010 1:40 pm ] |
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Don't worry my friend, we've all been there and you just gotta move on from that. |
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