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| Author: | stagg [ Wed Sep 05, 2007 4:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | it may be sleazy, but i cant help it |
ok im gonna lay it down how it is. I met this hb7 in my dorm just a few days ago.( i give her a 7 but she happens to be my particular type, so frim my perspective a hb11) anyhoo, i asked her and her roomates out to go to the hooka bar down the sreet, i thought this would be an awsome idea due to i could give her roomates more attention. she would poke and prod back whenever i gave her the slighest bit of attention. she even laughed all by herself when i said somehing that i knew was staight up not funny. i thought i was in. however unfortunatly i find out today that she has a bofriend back home. at wich point i just comtinued negging her and srubbing elbows with prettier but less interesting girls. so my level hasn't sunk any since i found out. but i need to land this asap, atleast before first vacation. This is the first time i've ever been afraid of rejection since i started learning about the game. i've tuned out the fear but it's like it's come around full circle. In a way i feel like this could be the pick-up that could potentally end pick up for me. I need a tip, advice, or anything totally solid |
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| Author: | Apollo [ Wed Sep 05, 2007 4:57 am ] |
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Run a boyfriend-destroyer routine. College relationships never last... You can pick up a girl with a boyfriend at anytime using the right game. 9 out of the last 13 girls I have hooked up with have had boyfriends... That makes me a home wrecker, but I figure, if they are going to hook up with me after gaming them, then the relationship won't last anyway. You can win her over by DHVing a huge amount... All you have to do is seem more interesting than her boyfriend and you win. Just to be safe, run the boyfriend-destroyer. |
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| Author: | iam fuzz [ Wed Sep 05, 2007 5:42 am ] |
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Quote: Run a boyfriend-destroyer routine. College relationships never last... You can pick up a girl with a boyfriend at anytime using the right game.
x29 out of the last 13 girls I have hooked up with have had boyfriends... That makes me a home wrecker, but I figure, if they are going to hook up with me after gaming them, then the relationship won't last anyway. You can win her over by DHVing a huge amount... All you have to do is seem more interesting than her boyfriend and you win. Just to be safe, run the boyfriend-destroyer. -fuzz |
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| Author: | Holden [ Wed Sep 05, 2007 10:58 pm ] |
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My experience has been that girls at college with a boyfriend at home, very rarely end up with them when they finish school. Plus think if it was you waiting at home with your porn and lube for 7-8 months what would you be doing? As Apollo said, use the bf-destroyers and let her make her own decision. Your not going to be forcing her to do anything she doesn't want to do. |
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| Author: | Rythms [ Wed Sep 05, 2007 11:44 pm ] |
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Also DO NOT mention anything about her boyfriend. Pretend you don't even know. The more you keep him out of the conversation the easier it will be. I was at this party the other night and started gaming this 7, but she was really smart too so I was even more attracted to her. Anyway we had a great conversation, I number closed, then I called her number right in front of her to leave a message on her answering machine ( she didnt own a cell phone) so she would have my number. A man's voice answers the phone and I was like wtf must be the wrong number. Then I tell her and she says that is her significant other. The thing is, she didnt once mention him throughout our conversation and she was all up on me the whole time. That is how you would want it to be. I have her number but probably won't call her. It just means more effort and the possibilty of destroying that relationship. I am a big believer in karma so yea....however in your situation, where the BF is back home, do what you gotta do. |
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| Author: | Apollo [ Thu Sep 06, 2007 12:42 am ] |
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Quote: Also DO NOT mention anything about her boyfriend. Pretend you don't even know. The more you keep him out of the conversation the easier it will be.
Not true at all. Mentioning the boyfriend is not a horrible thing. This is taught by Ross Jefferies, Mystery, and Style. You have to play along with it like he is insignificant. Besides, you have to talk about him to use most boyfriend destroyer routines.
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| Author: | SouthernCross [ Thu Sep 06, 2007 1:14 am ] |
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Rythms is right about not bringing up the boyfriend. By bringing him up you'll only cause an unneccessary obstacle. One which you created yourself. She didn't mention him Why would you do that? If YOU bring him up it'll show a lack of confidence and healthy knowledge that you're competition with the boyfriend she'll start talking about how great her boyfriend is. So if you mention the b/f you might find yourself on a One way first class money back guaranteed trip to LJBF land!!! Peanuts and a swift kick in the butt included |
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| Author: | Apollo [ Thu Sep 06, 2007 2:25 am ] |
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Quote: Rythms is right about not bringing up the boyfriend.
Again... not true at all. Mentioning the boyfriend will not show a lack of confidence... I don't quite see how it could. Girls will usually say "I have a boyfriend" anyway when sarging. We all have, or should have, a response to this. Before you make such absolute remarks, do your homework. Learn from mPUAs who know what they are talking about... By bringing him up you'll only cause an unneccessary obstacle. One which you created yourself. She didn't mention him Why would you do that? If YOU bring him up it'll show a lack of confidence and healthy knowledge that you're competition with the boyfriend she'll start talking about how great her boyfriend is. So if you mention the b/f you might find yourself on a One way first class money back guaranteed trip to LJBF land!!! Peanuts and a swift kick in the butt included I am not saying you need to mention a boyfriend, but if you do, it is not the end of the world, nor as exaggerated as SouthernCross makes it. Also, mentioning the boyfriend does not bring up a "brag about my boyfriend" conversation. If you are able to play the conversation correctly, the way she will end up talking about her boyfriend is in a negative connotation. I have played the conversation out like this multiple times and can honestly tell you that if you do this right, the boyfriend destroyer routine will be easy and without any defending of the boyfriend. I put up a field report a month or so ago where the boyfriend conversation came up and I slowly carved the boyfriend attachment out of her until she was hooked on me. Don't give advice like you know if you only THINK you know what you are talking about. |
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| Author: | EasyLover [ Thu Sep 06, 2007 2:40 am ] |
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Quote: So if you mention the b/f you might find yourself on a One way first class money back guaranteed trip to LJBF land!!! Peanuts and a swift kick in the butt included
SouthernCross I LOVE YOU!! I agree with NOT mentioning the boyfriend. If i didn't mention him to you there's a reason for it don't go looking for something that doesn't Exist at the moment. You might not like what u find. |
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| Author: | Holden [ Thu Sep 06, 2007 2:44 am ] |
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Quote: I agree with NOT mentioning the boyfriend. If i didn't mention him to you there's a reason for it don't go looking for something that doesn't Exist at the moment. You might not like what u find.
I think the point here we can agree on is do not INITIATE talk about the b/f but be cognizant that it is an issue that will come up that must be talked about (even if the talk is a bf-destroyer routine)
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| Author: | Apollo [ Thu Sep 06, 2007 2:45 am ] |
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Perhaps I am misinterpreted. I never suggested asking if she had a boyfriend or looking for one... That is stupid. If a girl wants to go out to hook up with another guy, she isn't going to flaunt her significant other. But if you know she has one (and she knows that you know) or if she says she has one, DHVing yourself compared to the boyfriend will help a lot... and DLVing the boyfriend can be a necessity in certain senerios. |
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| Author: | SouthernCross [ Thu Sep 06, 2007 3:22 am ] |
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Quote: SouthernCross I LOVE YOU!!
Right back at you EasyLover!!! |
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| Author: | EasyLover [ Thu Sep 06, 2007 3:28 am ] |
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Quote: Right back at you EasyLover!!!
oxoxo |
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| Author: | Rythms [ Fri Sep 07, 2007 5:52 am ] |
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Apollo you are right in saying that it is not the end of the world. Like you said you can DHV yourself and DLV for him. I personally like to avoid the extra effort required for that. The less I have to do, the better. |
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