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Author:  t1trar1 [ Wed Oct 28, 2009 8:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Direct game, A to Z totorial ?
Hi, I'm new to this, I've been reading stuff about pickups and about inner game, but so far I haven't field tested. I want to have a clear understanding of what I'm doing before I jump on it.

I know the direct game is for me. So I just need a general image of how a direct game would look like from start to finish.

So I'll approach her confidently and tell her something like "You're attractive... I'd like to get to know you" or whatever... And yes I can handle the intense eye contact stuff and I like it very much. Talking less, slowly and rarely also fits my personality.
So I'll grab her phone number in order to invite her to a coffee next day.

Now, second day at the coffee I'll chat her up, mostly asking about her as I'm so "interested in getting to know everything about her".

All clear so far.

What I want to know is what do you guys do after this point, until you nail her.
Just tell me know your own game, actual stories, and I will draw my own conclusions and see what fits me.

The more detail the better.

Thanks!
Author:  Tom_"Maybe" [ Wed Oct 28, 2009 10:12 pm ]
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Direct approach is great. But if you're in a club setting, you're going to get knocked down quick as shit. You're going to want to go indirect at a bar. The only direct opener I'd do in a bar is the model opener. Which goes like this....

You: "Are you a model?"
Girl: "No", or "Why?"
You: "You've got a cool look."

And the conversation is lifted from there.

Also, on the second date you're going to want to bring her to a spot that YOU are used to. A coffee shop is nice if you know everyone that works there. I usually bring them to the library and look at all the kids books. But my point here is... you want to bring a girl into your world. Introduce her to your lifestyle, and that way she knows for sure how confident you are. Your so confident you know in your mind she'll have fun here, or there.

This is your game bro, but it's fun to show a woman your self-esteem and confidence.
Author:  SirKonstantine [ Wed Oct 28, 2009 10:52 pm ]
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There is almost no difference between direct and indirect game.

In Indirect game, you hide your Intent until she is into you. Which can be at about the 4 minutes point. Really it happens fast.
in Direct game, you let your Intent be known on the approach. If she likes you, you dont have to go threw that much banter and BT spikes as you would with Indirect. You will still have to get to know her and connect with her just like in Indirect as well as lead and escalate.

To cut it down even further, Game is Game. They might be two different paths, but it get you to the same results and the paths are kind of similar anyways.
Author:  t1trar1 [ Wed Oct 28, 2009 11:13 pm ]
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guys, thanks for the replies, but what i'd really like to read is how you actually do it.
for example: "after coffee i take her to a bar and we drink a cocktail and we talk and kino for a couple hours till i get her horny and then invite her to my place same day"

so after the coffee, what are the steps to the bedroom ?
Author:  Tom_"Maybe" [ Wed Oct 28, 2009 11:50 pm ]
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Sex is a series of emotions that we can physically show. So like any human emotion... it just happens.

Lets say on Day 2 you do go to the coffee shop. What you want to do is keep the discussion light and sexual. Not like... creepy sexual. But be very subtle in your sexual chat. Like... ask her (either playfully or so seriously that she'll laugh) if she's wearing granny panties, lol. Shit like that. Then that could get into a discussion about her shopping for clothes habits. Ask her if she's ever tried boy-shorts, or ask her if she gets the panties in packs of 8, or fuck if I know... but be light...as if it's simple questions that you'd ask your best guy friend, but keep it subtly sexual.

I've even gone so far as to saying "Look honey, you're great and all. But I'm not seeking a relationship, I'd just really love to fuck you." And if you can pull that high-wire act of the century off...then you'll have her in your bed if not today, than the next. It's that simple.

These things I'm telling you right now mean NOTHING, unless you can pull off having huge amounts of courage in front of a woman. Forget confidence and mojo, or whatever the fuck you call it. It's all about having ungodly courage and NOT BELIEVING IN IT, BUT KNOWING IN IT. You can believe all you want, but you've got to know such behavior will work.

Trust me...you will get laid.
Author:  SirKonstantine [ Wed Oct 28, 2009 11:50 pm ]
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so after the coffee, what are the steps to the bedroom ?
If I didn't say it clearly enough in my post, here it is again: When you get THIS far, there is no difference between Indirect or Direct game.

What you are doing is called Pulling. So you lead her one step closer to the close. ie, lead her to your car, to your door step, into your house, and into the bedroom. make out, take clothing off, put a rubber on, put it in, thrust.

Those are the steps.

It might be messy, but be PERSISTENT. or it might be smooth. Every girl is different.
Author:  Tom_"Maybe" [ Thu Oct 29, 2009 12:02 am ]
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Sir is right. It's a series of push and pull. To get her to your place is simple. Just fill your house with shit that girls would think are cool...even if they are not. Like say...In my attic I have boxes and boxes full of old ass Goosebumps books. I've also got a Nintendo Wii with WiiFit (works great if the chick is into yoga, or something of that nature).

The fact is you have cool shit in your apartment, or condo, or house, right? So use it as an excuse to get the girl into your house. Buy a little puppy. Like I've got the cutest little dog. Get the girl into a conversation about pets, then tell her "Oh, I've got these badass fish in my apartment...you should totally see them sometime". Then boom...if your game is tight, she'll be looking for ways to get into your pants..er..I mean apartment.

So go with those guidelines and see how far you get.
Author:  t1trar1 [ Thu Oct 29, 2009 8:39 pm ]
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just checked info on the push/pull thing and seems awesome to me. great info.

also, like how soon should i invite her to my place?
Author:  SirKonstantine [ Fri Oct 30, 2009 1:52 am ]
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just checked info on the push/pull thing and seems awesome to me. great info.

also, like how soon should i invite her to my place?
Push/Pull is something else. What you are doing is PULLING the girl home: its called Pulling.

and you get her to your place by telling her "LETS GO"
Its not rocket science. Your dad did this.
Author:  t1trar1 [ Fri Oct 30, 2009 10:39 pm ]
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Quote:
Quote:
just checked info on the push/pull thing and seems awesome to me. great info.

also, like how soon should i invite her to my place?
Push/Pull is something else. What you are doing is PULLING the girl home: its called Pulling.

and you get her to your place by telling her "LETS GO"
Its not rocket science. Your dad did this.
SirKonstantine, you're a true revelation for me. I just realized that if my dad did this then I can surely go around myself and just get any fine girl to my place by telling her "LETS GO". Why didn't I think of that by myself? It was so obvious that I now truly don't understand why is this whole PUA community so big in the first place.

on a more serious note: thanks guys for the replies.
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