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| Author: | Mech [ Thu Aug 09, 2007 6:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Beating the 'player' rep |
I'm going to be gaming a girl this weekend, who saw me go home with two different women in one weekend earlier this summer (she was part of my safe set). Any suggestions as to how I should deal with her view of me as a 'player'? I know she think I'm funny, attractive, and friendly. I could definitely close if she hadn't witnessed me gaming other women, but I feel like I might not be able to now. |
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| Author: | Israel [ Thu Aug 09, 2007 7:20 pm ] |
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Dude, if anything it will only help your game. You've turned on the "pre-selection switch." Her point of view: Other girls get with you. There must be something special about you - you must have high social value. |
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| Author: | swiftone [ Fri Aug 31, 2007 10:27 pm ] |
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I recently had a HB8 tell me... hey you better not be a player cause i'm not a one time thing what so ever... I said: great I'm glad you said that cause i would want to put it down more than once too! she laughed and said "you're something else you know that? I cant even describe you" and f-close!!! so a good come back would be... HB:are you a player? or how many girls have you hooked up with like this...? PUA:wait wait wait... you're not a one time deal are you??? HB: hell no! PUA: okay good cause i would want to drop it like its hot with you more than once too! |
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| Author: | Kaos101 [ Sat Sep 01, 2007 4:57 pm ] |
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Quote: Dude, if anything it will only help your game. You've turned on the "pre-selection switch."
Her point of view: Other girls get with you. There must be something special about you - you must have high social value. I agree with Israel, you have already DHV by allowing this HB to see your acceptance from other women and that there is a demand for you from other HBs. The winds are blowing in your favor Mech, may the force be with you.... _____________________________________________________________ Constructive critiscism only polishes my blade to a razors edge... |
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| Author: | Paetar [ Sun Sep 02, 2007 2:34 pm ] |
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Player rep isn't bad, as long as you are not seen as guy who hurts and cheats on women. Carpe Diem. |
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| Author: | BlackBull [ Sun Sep 02, 2007 4:07 pm ] |
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One of my best friends is a player. ...some of his women know that too. ...they still fuck him. Player rep is good.Just dont talk about it. |
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| Author: | Methuselah [ Sun Sep 02, 2007 8:22 pm ] |
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See above. Anytime I get called a player I just laugh and say something like "Yeah right!" or "No, you've got the wrong guy, I don't even hold hands until the third date." Then smile and continue the conversation in a new direction. |
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| Author: | Holden [ Tue Sep 04, 2007 4:56 am ] |
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I think the concept of Not being Judgemental applies here or rather is the underlying issue. She's trying to find out if your a player because she doesn't want her/your safe set to think badly of her. Yes, the advice about "playing" off the comment certainly applies. But I predict you might run into some LMR for fear of being judged by her friends. So brush up on that too and build the comfort trust before closing with her. Opinions? |
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