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Hi, this is probably one of my first posts here. I don't have time to explain my entire situation, but I probably will sooner or later.
Please note: I'm sorry if this is in the wrong section, just move if needed.
I broke up with a girl (pretty serious relationship - Well, we mutually broke up to be more exact), and it's been a good two years now. We were on bad terms for a long time, and now we're able to forgive each other and talk occasionally. I'm an all-around sort of guy when it comes to personality, and her exact words "You're a good mix". She is definitely a 9/10 in the perspective of others, and for lack of better terms, a "social butterfly".
After we made amends, I tried calling her once (2 weeks or so later to see whats up) and got no response. I saw her in person 3-4 weeks after that (accidental, first time in 2 years), and I got the feeling that our natural attraction kicked into the back of her head. That night, she called me (after a couple drinks), but I could not talk, so I called her the next night and we had a brief chat.
I figure that I want to stop being the one calling her, and have her start wanting to talk to me. And I came up with the idea of the phone freezeout. (Referring to Style's freezeout), but over the phone.
Do you guys think that it would be effective if you were in a somewhat deep conversation with an ex, and you start to bring back (POSITIVE) memories between you two. Something strange that happened when you went out somewhere, or something between you and one of her old friends, and then after a couple minutes of you both sharing great memories, telling her that you need to leave, that it's important, and asking her to call you sometime.
I believe if the conditions are right and the great positive SPAM is flowing, that it will subconsciously remind her that she really wants to continue talking to you.
I'd like your feedback (more on the freezeout, but I'll accept personal tips as well
)Happy Gaming!
Red
