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| Author: | MazFlow Agent [ Thu Jun 18, 2009 7:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Waiting for her to text me.. |
Okay so me and this HB have been talking for about 4 weeks and well we're more than just friends but not going out yet. I want to be her bf though. I used to always text her in the morning until she would stop tetxing me and text me whenever she wanted. So I did the same thing and she came back. In the time period of these 4 weeks she has went out with a guy but broke up, I was a big reason to why they broke up. So lately I have been negging her and she has been trying to win my attention but we havent text in 2 days. Today I sent her a pic of me and she still hasn't replied. SO my question is: Should I text her more than once if she doesn't reply to me the first time? I don't wanna seem like I really need her, otherwise she'll know I want her attention and she'll be in control. |
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| Author: | Mr E [ Thu Jun 18, 2009 9:29 pm ] |
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Wait dude, she WILL come back. you'll see. but wait. and sarge other babes. meanwhile just for practise. ok? |
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| Author: | Renaissance PUA [ Wed Jun 24, 2009 4:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | don't be needy |
Dude, I can tell straight away that you are obsessed by this girl. 1. Lose the obsession 2. Stop being needy 3. Never text a girl all day every day - you make yourself seem too available I would use a jelousy plotline in this case, it's risky, but if your not getting her anyway what choice do you have, you could be waiting forever. I like to gamble, but if you want to play it safe, sit it out and w.........a..........i........t Renaissance, |
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| Author: | [Vegas] [ Wed Jun 24, 2009 5:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Waiting for her to text me.. |
Quote: I want to be her bf though.
Wrong mentality. She should want to be your girlfriend. Make her want you.Quote: I used to always text her in the morning until she would stop tetxing me and text me whenever she wanted.
You would send her the first text of the day EVERY day? Personally, I think that comes off as seeking too much attention. Let her strike up the conversation here and there. Space your texts back to her out a little. You're a busy man and you suppose you can squeeze her into your schedule. She is not obligated to respond and devote her attention to you. You need to keep it short and interesting to keep her attention.Quote: she has went out with a guy but broke up, I was a big reason to why they broke up. How did you impact this, just curious? Quote: So lately I have been negging her and she has been trying to win my attention but we havent text in 2 days. Today I sent her a pic of me and she still hasn't replied.
Don't worry about it. She'll get back to you. If you have been texting EVERY SINGLE day and it's been an all day affair, a break is a good thing. Gives you time to refresh topics to talk about and not the whole typical "Soooo how was your day" conversation. Space is good.Quote: SO my question is: Should I text her more than once if she doesn't reply to me the first time?
No. She most likely received your text and if she didn't respond, she didn't respond. She will when she feels like it. Don't sit around and wait for it. Go out and do things. Flirt with other girls. If she is into you like you think she is, she will get back to you soon.
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