so if you guys really want to get good at this i suggest making routines for everything!!!!
my take on routines:
everybody naturaly does or says routine things, so why not give yourself the evolutionary advantage and take it one step further. just make sure to use routines that are congruent to your own personality.
so what do i mean by routines for everything? well "everything" seems impossable, but make routines for even simple small talk things like "how are you" "what are you up to" "where are you from". make a list of situational openers for certain situations (that sounded ridiculus to me to narrow it down that much when i first thought about it, but it really helps) make a list of responses for common (and even uncommon) things people say. make a list of fun cold reads you can tell people in situations, it's a great way to transition. make routines for name exchanging. make routines for qualification. it works so much better rather than making a bunch of cheesy routines to instead make routines that seem natural. make routines to be social with guys.
i spent a month in my room studying and coming up with routines (i know, ridiculous) came out really good pua. you are rewarded for your efforts. i know it seems like it would be impossible to remember so many lines but it's really not.
for everyone that says in-field is the best way to learn... i disagree... sorry. really putting alot of effort into learning exactly how to do it. i also don't understand natural game. how can you learn to be natural, that doesn't make any sense. if you are intentionaly trying to pick somebody up then it wasn't natural... you planned it.
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