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| Author: | Undercover-lover [ Wed May 13, 2009 8:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Need help understanding a "common" routine. |
So I live in alpha central. Well at least A**hole central. I'm used to having girls pursue me, and have never asked a HB to be exclusive. (well OK maybe twice, and I'm 1-1). Yet the strangest thing I come across is these "alphas" ask the women to be their girlfriends, and they succeed. Honestly this makes no sense to me. Why? How they go about it. I've never been within ear shot when it happens, but I ask the girls later. They never tell me exactly what was said, just what they percieved. What they experience is alpha, and non needy. When I ask these guys, they just say they word it so theres no chance of rejection. WTF?! What can they be saying that keeps the alpha vibe, remains nonneedy, doesn't leave these guys open to rejection, and still brings up the decision to become exclusive? |
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| Author: | Zikki [ Wed May 13, 2009 1:09 pm ] |
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its easy peasy, when I went "exclusive" with my girl.. Id been sleeping with her for a few weeks, she'd been coming over pretty frequently etc, after one session I just turned to her and said, me "so your my girl now! yeah!" she "if you want me to be" me "well thats a stupid question" that was it..... it goes along with the assumed rapport kinda thing, "assumed relationship" just need to make sum kind of statement, the "your mine" kinda thing, guage how she reacts, "if you want" "do you want me to be" "that'd be kool" sorta thing and job done.. she might give LMR..... "why do we need to complicate things" "im not sure if im ready" etc... u will need to counter these, good game before hand should neutralise them, but u want to know the outcome before the question really. I wouldnt use an "assumed relationship" technique if I wasnt dead sure the girl wud accept it, dont put urself in that boat lol... |
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| Author: | hucker [ Wed May 13, 2009 6:06 pm ] |
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being alpha is a huge part of pickup. no matter what a girl says, nearly none of them want a 'nice guy'. they want alpha males. natural alpha males are the guys that get the hottest chicks. that shouldnt be surprising to you at all... Quote:
What can they be saying that keeps the alpha vibe, remains nonneedy, doesn't leave these guys open to rejection, and still brings up the decision to become exclusive?
they are themselves. they arent doing this on purpose, its their natural demeanor/personality. it comes natural.
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| Author: | Undercover-lover [ Wed May 13, 2009 8:43 pm ] |
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Thanks guys, sometimes its the obvious things that slip by us the easiest. |
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