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Author:  AJ_ATX [ Sat May 09, 2009 8:39 am ]
Post subject:  AMOG'd by a close friend
I've been AMOG'd plenty of times before, but tonight I got AMOG'd by a friend of many years. I think he did it b/c I was owning the room and he felt uncomfortable. Lately I've been noticing that hes a bit of a hater, but it's probably b/c he doesn't want me to attract a family member of his.

He AMOG'd me by taking a cheap shot at an acne break-out I have from stress. Regular anti-AMOG tactics went out the window, I usually go for the "Nice shirt, I used to have one just like it in High School," or "Wow, man you are so awesome, when I'm done with these girls you have to show me how to be as cool as you."

Neither really applied so I just laughed it off and continued my conversation. How would you guys handle this? The guy is a meat-head all the way. He's pretty AFC and he used to be a pussy but he joined the USMC and his head is all inflated now.

Thanks in advance for any advice.
Author:  Abdul-aAfc [ Sat May 09, 2009 9:23 am ]
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In situations like that instead of laughing it off the other best option would have been to have a glass of water ready and just drink it.

Or you could have said something like "Did you guys know that (insert friend's name) has " then stop your sentence there. It makes people fill in whatever you haven't said their imagination fills it up with anything. No matter how much they plead don't say anything.
Author:  nightrider767 [ Sat May 09, 2009 6:47 pm ]
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Talk to him. Find out what's up.
Author:  AJ_ATX [ Sat May 09, 2009 7:21 pm ]
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Or you could have said something like "Did you guys know that (insert friend's name) has " then stop your sentence there. It makes people fill in whatever you haven't said their imagination fills it up with anything. No matter how much they plead don't say anything.
I like this. Will keep in mind for later use.

It was funny being there last night b/c I started getting into NLP recently and was beginning to see some people's thought processes, and a lot more body language than usual.

The friend who AMOG'd me was showing really defensive body language that was getting progressively tighter as I took the center of attention away from him. Then out of nowhere he pulled the AMOG. I was laughing more at the fact that I was able to recognize it happening before it did. He seems to get upset when I don't act as AFC as I used to, especially when I'm around his LTR who he knows has cheated on him at least 2x.

This has motivated me to get deeper into this game. Thank you guys for your advice.
Author:  tpain [ Fri Jul 10, 2009 6:18 pm ]
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Im pretty new to this game but if it was my friend, I would try to find out why he is uncomfortable. Also he could not even realize what he is doing and just want some attention. You got to remember that when out with a friend you got to be a good wing too and bring up his game. Also, I think that if you help him to kiss close he will have new found respect for you, because all you have done so far is take all the attention away from him. Try it out.
Author:  kismet [ Wed Jul 29, 2009 2:45 am ]
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If you were the center of attention at the time, the people you are entertaining are only going to react to the things you yourself react to. you are supplying the good emotion with where your attention is, whether its yourself or elsewhere. If you stop to listen to your friend bash on you, you could instantly change the subject with "so i got in this car accident one time..." or anything completely random, ignoring him completely, and they will instantly follow your lead and ignore his statement as you did. ignoring someone is by far the most powerful way to keep your frame or pass a shit test. however, since he is a close friend i'm sure you the comment caught you off guard and in that split second you actually gave him that attention he was after. perhaps it made you actually think about your acne. the people around you will follow your lead and also accept the interruption in the conversation.

Though if you're thinking of what you could've said because you did make the mistake of giving it that attention then maybe something like "aw, common dude, i know you're a little upset since you now have to pay me $20 extra a month to be your friend, but i'm in high demand right now, it's really nothing personal. And besides the Christmas cards i send you are of the highest quality. ANYWAYS..." and roll into some random topic very quickly.

With proper inner game, as you learn to become a figure of high status, you will naturally learn to ignore comments of little significance from surrounding amogs entirely, as if you didnt even hear what they said at all. then many seconds later your mind processes what they said, but at that point you've held attention and rolled the conversation elsewhere, you'd be the only person to think about it. and if you want you can throw something into the conversation about that guy. make it funny, the crowd laughs, he leaves or at least back downs in silence while he thinks about how embarrassed he is.

good times.
Author:  Myth [ Wed Jul 29, 2009 5:15 am ]
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2 options, Help him get girls with you or drop him.

If you help him get girls, you will be the Alpha, you will be the leader
and naturally he will fall in line because your his ticket to meeting girls.

or

Just drop him (yes its a simple as it sounds)
Author:  Marc [ Thu Jul 30, 2009 1:26 am ]
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2 options, Help him get girls with you or drop him.

If you help him get girls, you will be the Alpha, you will be the leader
and naturally he will fall in line because your his ticket to meeting girls.

or

Just drop him (yes its a simple as it sounds)
I'd say this is a good advise.

You'll see this a lot, some guys hate you others want to be around you to learn the game. You dont make great friends most of the time but you've got to suck it up and live with it. Welcome to the world of Game.
Author:  Mr_Lover_Man [ Sat Aug 08, 2009 12:53 pm ]
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I have a friend who is basically like that (id more call him a wing as he is someone ive became friends with in the new area ive moved to (most of my close friends are miles away from here)). He gets attention from time to time but when anyone else gets it he is so jealous and trys to mess the whole thing up. Ive put him in his place now and again but it seems he cant help but try to be the centre of attention and as soon as someone else fills that position he dont like it. Ive helped him get girls including f-closes and n-closes" as soon as it comes to me he becomes a right "d*ckhead" and to be honest he is an alright person but I now mainly hang out with him as he is one of the only "friends" i kno in this area. Am not too keen on sarging in clubs or bars alone, but i heard that girls admire that. Can someone tell me if that's true? I always thing that females would see u as a right loner lol
Author:  wrecked [ Fri Aug 14, 2009 11:46 pm ]
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i also recently just had this happen to me last week...got AMOG'e by a supposed firend of 11 years. he's done this to me 5 times so far and i finally said enough. we are no longer friends bcuz real friends dont do that to each other. i recommend you cut him out
Author:  Manda Chuva [ Sat Aug 15, 2009 12:00 am ]
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what an interesting topic amoging ; i have a friend who tries to Amog me lower my value because its too high and his an AFC with regular game
I think you handled the situation very good i would of laughed or just ignored maybe even negged him lol ahaha :) id just turn my body away like he isnt a person i know , ( Everyone gets punished for bad behavior no matter how close.)
I think the problem here is you might of secluded you're friend , anyhow since his not one skilled in the arts and knows much ure friend doesnt know how to handle the situation , alot of pppl dnt realize tht if ure HIGH value and ure with them ( PART OF THEIR TRIBE ) ure also high Value
Better alone then with bad company. The best thing to do is sarge by ureself and dnt hangout with this dude anymore when attempting to game some ppl just hold you back from Glory
Author:  Tank0269 [ Mon Aug 17, 2009 3:40 am ]
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ive been in the same situation where a buddy ive had for years AMOGed the hell out of me.. im going to have to agree with myth on this help him get some girls and let him realize that he needs you and if he dont learn then drop him and find another wing..
Author:  Manda Chuva [ Tue Aug 18, 2009 1:19 am ]
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Wow i had an interesting day of amoging by alot of people wholy shyt
everyone who is not in the game doesnt that they are amoging consciously maybe;
Field report here
Im at work guy rite beside me tht is a buddie amogs me by grabbing my cookies lol , now ive noticed that he has a habbit of doing this so i neeged him
Whooa i didnt say you could have any , and i offered him some 2 minutes later for good behavior just the point was so he could learn it i dnt like ppl grabbing my food maybe that taught em a lesson or else ima have to do it more hardcore
Amog 2) another dude had a habbit of tryin to give me shyt so i just turned my body away and left him lookin stupid
3) Playin basketball dude tackling me so i tackle basketball him back and he put his hand on my head like a pat i told him dnt do that again lucky him that he cut my hair yesterday and we are somewhat acquainted or a fight could broke out
Point is the Point of Amoging is to test to c if u can stand up for ureself and how far u can take it , so rite away u gotta cut what they do
AS far as sarging the best sarges are with people such as us that know the community because alo of the ppl i c and meet im trying to give em a chance and theyre just not at that level and dnt have the desire and passion like i do and im assuming like most of u in here do
Author:  SirKonstantine [ Tue Aug 18, 2009 3:17 pm ]
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His ego is too high. stop talking to him.

Besides, he's a lowly recruit, not even E-1 yet, did not even passed basic training yet--Hell he might not even pass at all.

you can get new friends, cant you?
Author:  Mr_Lover_Man [ Fri Aug 21, 2009 10:15 am ]
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His ego is too high. stop talking to him.

Besides, he's a lowly recruit, not even E-1 yet, did not even passed basic training yet--Hell he might not even pass at all.

you can get new friends, cant you?
It maybe easy to meet new people but in terms of actually making "friends" with someone is completely different lol depending on what your interpretation is of it.
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