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| Author: | Buschlightboy [ Tue Mar 31, 2009 2:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | My challenge for tomorrow night... |
Ok, so every Tuesday night I go swing dancing. (F* anyone who hates on this, I've never found a better place to work on game) First they have a lesson, and then just dancing and drinking for 2 hours. All at a local bar. First of all lets give the two girls names in the story. J- The girl who I have been friends with for a bit, we used to date, lots of sexual tension. K- Older, cougarish lady who wants my nuts but seems to be a LITTLE clingy. Ok so I usually go to swing dancing with J. When we are there, we usually stay with eachother, but are free to dance, drink, and talk with whoever. Well, last week I meet K. We flirted a bit, I got her number, had a few drinks... no big deal. A few days later, J admits that she still has feelings for me. We agree that we will let our feelings take us wherever, but we wont be tied down or have a title. (This is my excuse to have freedom and have her still put out. She is a female and I know she isnt TRULY capable of our arrangement) So long story short, Friday I hang out with K, and we end up hooking up. Saturday, I hook up with J. Tomorrow night we are all going to be there, I am arriving there with J. (K is aware of this) Here is what each one knows about the other... (Here in lies the problem) K thinks J is one of my good friends. She knows we used to date, but thinks I think of her like a sister. She also knows that I am loyal to my friends, and that I came with J, so I am going to spend a lot of time with her. J thinks K is a random girl I met there, and she hasnt really mentioned her since then. She doesnt know I hung out with her Friday night, but I can play that off if it comes up, because K won't publically admit that we hooked up. So basically I am too stubborn, (and too stupid), to not go tomorrow night. Its something I have fun doing, and I think if I am comfortable enough, I can just put off the image that I am an extremely sexual, flirty person.... and this is normal behavior for me. My basic plan is to flirt with as many girls as I can at this place. Basically just shoot the shit with EVERYONE! Guys, girls, couples, bartenders, whatever. Assuming that I am going, (staying home is not an option), would u agree that this is the best strategy? |
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| Author: | sixtopher [ Thu Apr 02, 2009 6:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | free to mingle |
I definitely say that that would be a perfect idea. Honestly since you are having a (sexual?) relationship with both of them consider them pivots. why game them when they've been gamed. Treat them just like pivots. Have fun introduce them to the sets you meet have them social proof you and just enjoy yourself. I've been in situations where I'd be in the club with like 2 of my ltr's a few one night stands not to mention a few chicks that I'd like to initiate something with. Those nights are purely fun nights we hang out and have fun. Also another note if you're worried about jealousy, try not to K-close in the venue. I've made that mistake...doesn't ever work how you think it will. Just #/@close and talk to those chicks later in the meantime you have to figure out how and with whom you're going home. Me personally I usually leave the venue alone and end up calling someone over afterwards if I really need it. P.S. That shit can get pretty hectic especially when you have good pivots you'll open too many sets and have too many chicks to talk to not to mention the fact that you don't really want to get caught paying too much attention to any one female. That's only if you're worried about jealousy and losing a target/pivot. |
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