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| Author: | danny91664 [ Wed Feb 25, 2009 8:32 am ] |
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havent field tested yet. as i was studying for accounting i got side tracked and started thinking about boyfriend destroyers, dont ask me why. so we all know the basic concepts of boyfriend destroyers: 1) never directly put yourself up against the boyfriend to make him look bad and you look good. example: "oh hes such a loser, im obviously the better choice." shes just going to end up defending him and thinking of you as the slimeball whos trying to break up a "perfect" relationship. fail. 2) instill the ideas of what a good healthy relationship is in her mind. possibly pointing out things that you tend to do in relationships. you can go in many directions, the point is, to instill an idea of a quality or lack thereof in her boyfriend to cause her to have second doubts. example1: "yeah i remember when i was with my ex, i had a habit of doing little things to surprise her. i guess i enjoyed seeing the excitement and how happy she'd get." example2: "yeah i remember when i was with my ex, i had a habit of hanging out with my friends more than her. but i learned that to have a good relationship i would spend more time with my girlfriend." you gotta be careful what you say, but with the right choice of words she will directly relate the qualities of a good relationship to hers and again rethink of relationships. so heres how i came up with this routine: i had a blind date valentines last last weekend. as i expected it was ok, not awesome or anything but hey couldnt complain. the girl was very cute, i would say a hb7. she was funny, a dancer, into music, and probably a fun girl to be around. however for some reason or another we just could not click. it was a quadruple date and everything seemed so phony and forced on us by the other couples. the night ended at my house where i threw a little get together with all the couples and some friends. the valentines date got a little drunk and we started talking alot more, i guess she started to think more of me after that night. ever since shes been on my tail asking me if we're gonna go out for an official date and just been pretty persistant. now for me, the thrill is all in the chase and i dont see this girl more than a friend, so i have no drive to go for her. i jokingly told her that i would call her everyday and be really needed. basically describing to her the epitome of an AFC to the max. thinking that she would be turned off by the thought, she got even more into the idea of us hooking up. this is where the bf destroyer comes in. i think using that story on a girl, i can somewhat instill those thoughts onto the girl youre trying to game without deliberately saying it. i can also change up what's being "said to the valentines date" example: "so yeah then i jokingly told her, i would be a terrible boyfriend, i had a habit of hanging out with my friends more than my girlfriend, and we all know that spending time with each other is important in a good relationship." you can then make it tie back to your targets BF by saying, "i mean, you have a bf, and he doesnt do that right?" Boom, instant anchor. she now thinks about her realtionship with her bf and how hes always hanging out with the boys. She starts to get mad saying he always hangs out with his friends. Then you "obliviously" move to another BF destroyer technique. example: "oh...well im sure he loves you, its just hes so comfortable with you that he sees you like a sister. well...like a special sister. one thats always gonna be there at home waiting when he gets home. sounds like you guys are on a level where theres no need for too much excitement, some guys deal with love like that etc etc." she should be wanting to rip your clothes off right now because of the lack of excitement in her relationship.. or so she was told (by you) just kidding. but now it'd be easier to run your most successful routines without having to worry bout the bf. havent field tested but will soon. what do you think? |
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| Author: | 5uave [ Tue Mar 10, 2009 12:23 pm ] |
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Why dont you just find another girl. BF destroying is not cool man. |
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| Author: | CaptRow [ Tue Mar 10, 2009 6:59 pm ] |
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Quote: Why dont you just find another girl. BF destroying is not cool man.
there's nothing wrong with that[/quote]
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| Author: | Vinci [ Fri Mar 13, 2009 4:31 am ] |
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lol yeah I agree. Most cute/hot girls have boyfriends. Cmonn.. all hot girls always need to have a boyfriend. Although, Im not a fan of talking shit to the boyfriend though. I'll throw in a couple "oh jeez. tell him to leave us alone GOD" phrases. just to be C/F. |
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| Author: | Zanatos [ Wed Mar 25, 2009 1:18 am ] |
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Why are guys so dead against stealing girls? Most girls have to have a bf because all their female friends have them. A bf is basically the best option has at the time of the need. I am better so the BF will disappear. |
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| Author: | Jlax [ Wed Mar 25, 2009 2:18 am ] |
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well said Zanatos. |
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| Author: | Call Me Dre [ Wed Mar 25, 2009 3:11 am ] |
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Quote: Zanatos.
karma my friends, it will get you. ill make sure of it
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| Author: | Swoop [ Wed Mar 25, 2009 3:14 am ] |
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It is true, all is fair in love and war. But to steal someone's girl to just fuck her is wrong. Now, that being said, if your intentions are serious and you really like the chick, go for it. I think there should be DEFINITE discretion with these types of things. Think about how many BF destroyers have been deployed towards girls to no avail? Fails? Probably most. Somehow tho, that girl may now always think her BF is a fuck-up when he actually is not. Fabrication/exploitation. If thats you, shame mutha fucka! |
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| Author: | Kino Fox [ Thu Mar 26, 2009 7:20 am ] |
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I agree with zanatos, plus most the guys hot girls call their "BF" is a huge A-hole anyway so more power to ya if u wanna run a bf destroyer. |
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| Author: | master0rolando [ Fri Mar 27, 2009 8:15 am ] |
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hmm... i think a lot of times we have a duty to BF crush... remember why your here? because all the cuties and wonderful girls you had one-itis for always dated the dumbest, sleeziest, slimiest, pieces of shit... right?... arent the HBs better off with good guys like us than with the jerks and bad-boys... i think what Style and Mystery want is for good guys to have an edge on douchebags... i know a particular HB9 that definitely wants me...(she wont stop rubbing my hair/massaging my shoulders/coming into a room where im alone, even when i make of fun of her for it)...but her BF is always butting in...he can tell she likes me so he'll run in the room whenever i isolate her...or invite himself to whatever thing she and i are up to... thing is...HB9 is a really sweet girl...BF on the other hand is a total pot-head...douchebag... and frankly, im a better man than him... on the other hand...by best friend in the whole world...his girl is an HB10 for sure...i got a minor IOI from here once at a party...not a big deal but it put me on edge, so i told some stories that DHVed my bro and basically acted silly the whole night and even asked her for advice on girls and such... i don't just want her to be faithful, i want her to be attracted to my friend and appreciate what a freakin awesome guy he is... so i think theres a huge deal of discresion for BF destruction...destroy the jerks...help prop up the nice guys... |
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