Routine... Direct game ?
Isn't it mostly about going straight up and tell the girl "I know it you know it, let's just get to know eachother a little first".. I'm paraphrasing, of course.
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| Author: | Gavin23 [ Fri Jan 30, 2009 4:46 am ] |
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Does anybody have a good routine for this? on campus |
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| Author: | The Big Bad Wolf [ Fri Jan 30, 2009 3:08 pm ] |
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Routine... Direct game ? Isn't it mostly about going straight up and tell the girl "I know it you know it, let's just get to know eachother a little first".. I'm paraphrasing, of course.
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| Author: | Solomon II [ Fri Jan 30, 2009 4:03 pm ] |
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Direct isn't about routines, it's a mindset. Not really beginner stuff. 1. Speak your mind and be honest. And I mean that, say what you're really thinking. If you can't think of an excuse to go talk to her, go up and tell her you couldn't think of an excuse to go talk to her. It's that simple. 2. Make the conversation productive. You don't need to make small talk therefore you don't need to worry about running out of shit to say. No games, routines, or complicated stuff. You shouldn't even be thinking when you do this, just go with the flow. Just talk about what you wanna do and how to go about it, that's it. You can chat and get to know her a little after you sort something out, but to start with, you tell her why you approached her, what you wanna do, and ask her what's the best way to sort it out. 3. Everything is a shit test. Everything. If she walks away, it's game over - anything else is just a test. I've talked about dealing with shit tests a lot before, so do a search. It's all about short, unresponsive replies, agreeing with her, or challenging her depending on the sort of stuff she's saying. If she's being awkward, invite her to walk away and challenge her about why she won't do it. Check my definitive guide to direct game in the approaching & opening section, there's good stuff in there. |
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| Author: | The Big Bad Wolf [ Sat Jan 31, 2009 2:33 am ] |
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Sol, would you agree Direct Game is more about the Frame, the Mindset, than it is what you say ? I'm going out for day game in,... whatever the time until I wake... I think I've got it down pretty clear, but I'd just like to hear/read another way of framing it. I'm really keen on direct game, and thus far I've gotten pretty good response doing it... but I haven't done anything further than regular C&F and teasing girls behind the counter, (K-closed, but not #) in day game. I'd like to take the direct game there, into the light. What frame of mind would you recommend for direct day game ? What core beliefs would be the most beneficial ? e.g. what do you think(or not) when approaching a girl during the day ? |
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| Author: | Solomon II [ Sat Jan 31, 2009 3:43 am ] |
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Quote: Sol, would you agree Direct Game is more about the Frame, the Mindset, than it is what you say?
Absolutely. Your underlying attitude is what really counts, because without it, all your words are... are words. My attitude is that she may not necessarily be looking for a man, but she's most certainly open to the idea. I don't care if she's into me or not, all I care about is finding out which so we can either have a good time or I can move along, assured that I at least tried.The way I see it, I'm doing things my way because that's the way it should be. Even though it may not appeal to them at first, I like it, and not before long, so will they. I'll be polite and make her laugh, yet at the same time I'll be up front and honest about why I'm talking to her. I make sure the conversation is productive, and stay in control - we talk about why I approached her, and how to go about getting together. That's it. We can get to know each other when we meet up, I'm not gonna do it in the middle of the street. If she tries to avoid the subject by asking questions I answer them and get right back on track - I will not let her hijack my thread of conversation because that's weak. Not to mention if you get off topic and try to get back to it later on, it's incredibly awkward. Quote: What frame of mind would you recommend for direct day game ?
What frame of mind? A positive one. What core beliefs would be the most beneficial ?  As for core beliefs, that's simple. Knowing that even though she may not react well in the first place, she will come around. Anything, and I mean anything that falls short of her walking away and calling you an asshole is simply a shit test and she is still showing some degree of intrigue so long as she stands there. Also, understanding and embracing rejection is a huge part of your inner beliefs. Quote: e.g. what do you think(or not) when approaching a girl during the day?
I don't really think anything. Thinking holds you back... whether it's day or night, my rules are the same:- Have a plan, keep it simple, and stick to it. - Don't back down. - Don't get defensive. - Stay on track. - Keep small talk to an absolute minimum. I can go into more detail on these points if need be. |
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| Author: | L.H. [ Sat Jan 31, 2009 3:56 pm ] |
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hey, i just posted this video of an AFC Adam direct game street pick up in the videos section.. afc-adam-street-pick-up-with-commentary-vt38403.html |
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| Author: | L.H. [ Sat Jan 31, 2009 3:58 pm ] |
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also, if youre looking for campus game you should read "Conquer Your Campus" by Mark Redman (it's about how to build a reputation that will get you loads of friends and girls) |
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