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Author:  BG3174 [ Mon May 28, 2007 3:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Building Attraction
Hey guys,

I don't really have too much of a problem approaching or initiating contact with girls, after this however, I am terrible. I never know how to act when I am just sitting with a girl at a party or in between classes(I am still in High school). I try to make fun of her and to be funny, but I end up getting a lot of blank stares and they never seem like they are very into me. How should I act in this stage, do I need more cocky and funny or should I simply ignore them for a while.

Thanks for any input.
Author:  Fox. [ Mon May 28, 2007 7:52 pm ]
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You need to game her man! Do kino, do the cube, do a bunch of routines, you need to build that attraction!




FOX
Author:  Difference [ Tue May 29, 2007 12:51 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Building Attraction
Quote:
I try to make fun of her and to be funny, but I end up getting a lot of blank stares and they never seem like they are very into me. How should I act in this stage, do I need more cocky and funny or should I simply ignore them for a while.

Thanks for any input.
I was having a chat with some friends about how, when we are kids, we make fun of the girl we like and throw things at them etc, to try and hide our feelings. This is basically the ground work of negs, although negs are alot more advanced.

So when you say 'making fun of her', you could just be putting her down and making her feel bad. A neg is a backhanded compliment, so it shouldn't be too harsh, and after a few negs, if you do throw in a compliment, she'll feel like she's earned it. It also depends how hot she is. If she isn't amazing, go easy on the negs, cos she may just see you as an asshole.

Don't simply ignore her, cos in high school, she will probably get bored and go to someone else. If you are gaming her at school, obviously it's limited to how many routines you can use on her, so just make yourself interesting to talk to, read the newspaper or something so you might have some common topics to talk about, find out what shes into and see how it goes.
Author:  Flavio [ Tue May 29, 2007 6:37 am ]
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Well bro from what you wrote I can't get the entire
image but I have a feeling that there are a few reasons
for this...

I'm in high school too, so I know how you feel with that.
A few months ago I was getting the same stuff like you do
now. Blank faces... and the "are you normal" looks...

So the key here is to have the frame I DON'T CARE WHAT SHE THINKS...

First of all try to get your life a bit more interesting.
Do some new stuff, you need adrenalin. Start working out
if you're not already. Go go-cartin or rafting or on paintball.

If you have an interesting life then you'll always have what to
talk about.

READ BOOKS... this is very important, or so I think... 8)
and practice you communication skills all the time...

Next, find a wing if you can. Or get a friend from high school
into the community, at least you'll have someone with whom you
can discuss stuff and hang out in school.

Plus I agree Fox... game her. Get some routines, make her
talk about something, be cool and relaxed and at the same
time DON'T THINK ABOUT WHAT SHE THINKS AND DON'T
CARE ABOUT IT... if you act nervous around her than she
will get nervous... so if you are relaxed she will feel relaxed.
Easy...

And the most important thing is to practice. I'd recommend you
to become good friends, but just friends with a few HB's from
High School. Start going out with them, hanging out with them.

By doing this first of all you will get comfortable being around
hot chicks so you won't be nervous when you're in their company
and second all those chicks have a bunch of HB friends... that's cool.

Good luck bro,

Love,
Flavio
Author:  run4life413 [ Wed Aug 22, 2007 5:28 am ]
Post subject:  dont care
like favio said dont give a fuck wht they think or at least at like it. play it off as maby a you dont get me thing and it can DHV.but if your getting it all the time maby theres more to it than just not caring.
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