Been reading up on a few here, and while I understand the whole game behind them, I wonder if they aren't a bit, well,... counterconstructive?
Normally when I am gaming a girl I like, I will build so much rapport and attraction with her, that she *wants* to kiss me at the end. All I have to do is give her a good excuse, -and ok I can see how a lot of these kiss games are perfect for that.
But, it seems that a lot of guys are using these on girls they've kinda met, maybe been talking to them for a half an hour or so, and they "steal" a kiss. This seems like a bad thing to me, like it would give the girl second thoughts later on, going too fast and all that...
Or does it just build a lot of value that you can get a girl to do this even tho she is nearly consciously thinking about stopping it? I hear it often enough, "Oh my god I cant believe you got me to do that, *laughs and kisses me again*" or "How is it possible you always get your way with me?," but this is usually later in the game for me.
So where do you guys think the line is? Do you save kiss close games for later in the game, or do you use them as early pickup tricks? Obviously it will probably depend on the girl as well, still I am just curious.
Specifically, would you use one on a HB who you just met and dont have time to game for hours on end? Like you are leaving the club with your friends or whatever but she is into you?
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