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| Author: | musicman [ Tue Apr 24, 2007 3:58 am ] |
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I'm leaving this thread open for people to post their thoughts on complimenting women. Is it an important part of your game? And if so, what are the do/don'ts and when/hows for using them. I see NEGs being talked about often, and they're absolute GOLD, but aren't compliments just as important at times All feedback appreciated |
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| Author: | stallion [ Thu May 03, 2007 10:40 pm ] |
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woman want what they cant have, giving compliments lets them know they can have you, you lose your value. i never use compliments unless a girl is already comfortable with me (past the opening stage) , and then use them sparingly and i never initiate them myself which increases their value this particular situation has occured with me before, where a girl is looking for a compliment, like say she says "god my sister/friend is so pretty" with obvious undertones that she wants you to disagree with her, however its much better for you to pass up this comment with light affirmation. this will put her self esteem down etc... anyway continue with conversation and when the conversation dies down, or if one of you has to leave, just come out "btw you know your way prettier than your sister" because its highly unexpected its effect will be so much more IMPORTANT dont acknowledge that youve given her a compliment in any way...well at least thats the important bit to me |
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| Author: | Smile4now [ Fri May 04, 2007 2:13 pm ] |
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Ýou smell good. Thats a good compliment, after smelling her. So is "you taste good" after kissing. And so on, a wellplaced compliment is allmost a reward for something. MY GOD URE HOT! Has on the other hand never EVER gotten me anywhere. I think you get the concept 
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| Author: | musicman [ Sun May 06, 2007 2:19 am ] |
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Yes I totally agree. Saying my god you're hot is just another way of saying 'you have power and I don't'. It's NOT going to make her feel any more comfortable around you, and it's NOT going to get you any action that isn't out of luck - Complete AFC. Compliments can be seen as a little dangerous but I would assume that the guys out there who don't use them are the guys who aren't phase-shifting very well. Compliments work for me if at the same time I: -Neg to take away her power and not lose value -Create push-pull situations to keep her 'wanting what she can't have' |
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| Author: | Romeo7 [ Sun May 06, 2007 7:05 am ] |
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Compliments are rewards for something she does to please you. Read that again,,, Giving a woman a compliment is REWARDING her for something she has done. If you compliment her without she doing something for you, it will obviously be seen that you have your own agenda. You only compliment a woman when she DESERVES it For example: She kisses you YOU: You taste good You get at 10 in kissing This is good to say DO you get the idea? You shouldn ONLY compliment a woman when she DESERVES it, otherwise why would you? what has she done to get a compliment? |
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| Author: | musicman [ Sun May 06, 2007 8:48 am ] |
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You hit the spot Romeo |
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| Author: | Romeo7 [ Sun May 06, 2007 9:29 pm ] |
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Cool man, email me if you need anything, actually email me, I wanna ask you something, it could benefit both of us |
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