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| Author: | lkpo14 [ Tue Nov 18, 2008 4:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How long should you keep attraction and comfort? |
when should you start each one? and for how long should you keep them up? or you need to keep them both all the time? if so, then when you are in a comfort stat with a women, should you keep it that way, or mix it up(attraction and comfort)? i searched the forums.. i didnt find any specific answer. |
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| Author: | Psych_ [ Tue Nov 18, 2008 5:13 pm ] |
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Try and do all at the same time right from the start. Realize that each structure surves a purpose. If she feels awkward or uncomfortable make comfort, if she seems uninterested or bored create attraction. While doing this always lead forward as well and know where you want to take things. Hope this helps Psych |
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| Author: | Sexcellent [ Thu Nov 20, 2008 5:48 pm ] |
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to figure out where to start you need to gage how she feels about you. perhaps you might have litterally bumped into this girl in a public place: here you want to start with a little comfort because she is going to be uncomfortable. suppose now, that this is a girl that you know through a friend: she probably has some level of comfort because you know someone in common, so you definitely want to start with attraction. women get hit on all the time, so they will have an initial illusion of higher value that you need to meet. so starting with attraction is usually the safest bet. show her why she should be attracted to you, and then show her why she should be comfortable with you. i think you always want to build/maintain both attraction and comfort. i say maintain because once you move into a deeper relationship, you probably already built enough comfort and attraction, but many factors like miscommunication, time passing without seeing eachother, arguments, etc. will compromise the level of attraction or comfort you have attained. sometimes i feel that attraction and comfort work against eachother and are reciprocal. in other words, things that build attraction might sacrifice a little comfort, and things that build comfort might sacrifice a little attraction. thats why building relationships is a balancing act and a bit of a challenge. you have to keep putting a little more into each tank to maintain healthy levels. practice makes perfect, and experience is going to help a lot. |
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| Author: | manman [ Sun Nov 23, 2008 12:28 am ] |
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If you are having trouble with the steps, stop using them. You don't need these steps you be a pua or player, thats how Mystery does them. You will almost certainly fail if you don't stop trying to think when? you should do what?? and what order?? and for how long?? and what to say?? Going at this rate, you are going to fail. This stuff comes naturally. If you are not EXACTLY like mystery, The shit won't work for you. You have to act on what is the real you. And it will work almost 99% of the time. |
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