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okay i met this girl and we are seeing each other bt she thinks that i dont trust her for some reason and she has had a bad time with her ex boy friend coz he fucked her and ran so im having problems to actually try and get her comfort level with her wt shall i do
think about it websta. you need to display the exact qualities that she wishes the lad cuda had. demonstrate your not a playa. talk about how you can still be funny and charming - and still have girls in your life - without hurting them. playas are scum (i dont mean tht bdw its just wt you need to say lol). all she needs to know to have sex with you (once you have displayed all the dhv needed) is that you are going to be around after sex. she might not even WANT you around after sex. but she wants the OPTION. the truth is that you need the perfect amount of comfort with her - not enough and your gonna get jack shit. too much - that girls gonna throw you in the ljbf zone (lets just be friends zone). the trick is with her is build lots of comfort - but keep the attraction there. now you know her pretty well already - so you already have a lot of comfort. maximise it - confide information in her that NO one else knows (or at least make her feel that no one else knows it). and keep the attraction there with constant dhv and negs. sounds stupid - but use some false time constraints!! that girl is going to want to keep you there! - shes used to having people leave and is going to want to stop it. shes going to chase you!
Your friend,
V1V
