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Author:  Captain Tightpants [ Mon Sep 22, 2008 7:55 am ]
Post subject:  Subtle, clever, non-cheeesy ways of conveying pre-selection

Some of the things that have been suggested before, such as the fake lipstick kiss or putting female cologne on your neck, seem way too cheesy and could make you look really stupid if they backfired or if you weren't a good enough deceiver to pretend they weren't fake.

Here are some of the things I do that may be kinda sleazy and silly enough to put even Extramask to shame, but are still pretty effective: I have an iPhone so naturally lots of people want to play with it when they see it. In the "notes" section, I just wrote "Dear tightpants your hot" (obviously tightpants isn't my real name). I purposely used the wrong form of "you're" because pretty much every girl does that. Also, I offer to show the girl some pictures that I've taken (usually of neutral things like concerts or something weird I saw), or I'll show them how the touch screen mechanism works. I have to scroll through a couple of pictures to get to the one(s) I want to show her, and this includes scrolling past a couple of pictures I took of (and with) this cute girl whom I was hiking with.

Obviously I don't make a big show out of either of these things, but they always get intrigued and say something like "mmm, who wrote that?" or "oh, who's that?" Then I'll say something like "some girls took my cell phone and did everything to it" or "that's (person's name)" and keep talking.

If anyone else has some good ones to share, throw them in!

Author:  HotShot55 [ Mon Sep 22, 2008 10:35 am ]
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Hey that's an awesome idea with the phone, I have an Instinct...similar to the Iphone, has almost a rip off of Iphone's picture viewing format...all my friends ooh and aah over it...will definitely have to try that with some HB's and see how it pans out!

H.S.

Author:  hansolo86 [ Mon Sep 22, 2008 5:15 pm ]
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I don't think the lipstick thing is wrong if you use it as a routine. Like you're talking to a set of HB's (or maybe just one HB, whatever!) and you tell them that u want a lipstick marc on your neck. If you say it with a glimpse and smile and if you've gained enough comfort and attraction they will be glad. And later when you approach new sets, you can tell the story of the "HB who tried to get into my pants" which can be DHV if you tell it right!

About the photos, it has to be done right, so you don't show a lot of HB-pics, that's just showing off and a super turn off for girls!

Author:  ryoandt33333 [ Thu Sep 25, 2008 8:38 pm ]
Post subject:  flaky girl... a test? or just not interested?

I am in college and I have lab with this cute little asian girl, who is my lab partner. Since the first day, I have made sure to display positive body language and have had a good attitude/ personality and be playfull and assertive.
Anyway, we were talking about our test and she sounded impressed on how well i did compared to her and she said that I should help her some time. So i txt'ed her a couple of days later to study together and she didnt reply for 4 hours which I took as a bad sign...she replied with " i just got out of an exam and yes! we should get together some time to study let me know when you are free". I gave her the benefit of the doubt. the next day, i texted her again but this time she didnt reply for 7.5 hours! lol. My reply ( 40 min later) was " o ya i forgot i txted you! lol I ended up going out to eat with my girlfried anyway- get ahold of me when u want a study- budy. C Ya". I tried give somewhat of a neg there and communicate pre-selection (although i DO NOT have a gf) at the same time, while sounding like I really did care that she didnt txt me back untill HOURS later.


What do you guys think?
am i able to get her interested?

Author:  Johannes11 [ Thu Sep 25, 2008 11:40 pm ]
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I don't know if the saying you had a girlfriend was a good idea because it puts you in the friend zone immediately and then she might ask about her but as long as she replied to your messages you are fine.

Author:  loki11 [ Sun Sep 28, 2008 12:51 pm ]
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You shouldnt have used the term "girlfriend" without clarifying that shes just a friend and you're still available. Find some way to bring that up next time you talk to her. Even mention that this fictional girl has a fictional boyfriend. I believe that would give social proof without DLVing you by making you look like a player.

Author:  QB1 [ Sun Sep 28, 2008 1:18 pm ]
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The easiest way to indicate pre selection is opening with the 'I need your female opinion. It looks like Ill be moving in with all girls for my second year of Uni/College. What do you guys think about that? What if a relationship develops with a housemate?' Obviously you know the girls you're moving in with and the fact that they've chosen you to move in with them shows you're trustworthy and pre-selected by females.

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