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Author:  JackOfNoTrades [ Sat Aug 02, 2008 11:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Direct opener deflates balloon.

I've just stared using direct game. It's pretty awesome as the initial response from the girl is amazing, eyes light up, IOI's and all that lovely stuff. However I've noticed that the instant vibe that it creates begins to rapidly decrease. You can't really follow it up with any normal game.

So for those who are using or have used direct openers and have closed with the same vibe, what do you do?
- Jack

Author:  santos_br [ Sun Aug 03, 2008 3:30 am ]
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I know this situation my friend

I believe you are running out of new things to say, right? Or maybe there are no other cool stuff to talk about?

I prefer natural game so I let things flow. Keep her entertained and stuff! Run cold readings, some fun routines, be FUN.

It has just crossed my mind the possibility that you are not creating sexual tension. Remember: YOU MUST CREATE TENSION. Kino her and show her that you are attracted to her and you make no apologies because you are a man who is not afraid of your nature. Don't come off as a pervert.. I'm sure you get what I mean.

If this wasn't enough, just ask more and I'll be glad to help you.

Author:  JackOfNoTrades [ Fri Aug 08, 2008 10:25 am ]
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No it's not running out of things to say. I'm Irish mate, I can talk all bloody day :D . It's just that after delivering a direct opener e.g. 'I saw you from across the bar, tought you were kinda cute and I had to come over and get to know you a better'. Then we'll say the sexual chemistry spikes, you can't then go and talk about what she did on her holidays. Well you can but soon after you'll have to do something that will spike the attraction again.

Hmmmm I think I've solved it, get some serious push-pull, or ass loads of kino?

- Jack

Author:  nathan_asher [ Fri Aug 08, 2008 12:42 pm ]
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bro no jokes. club it or bar it for an opener like that. alchohol would most likly play a major factor in her reaction. and if not? the crowd and the buzz would also

youd need to not linger the close. its not a close that you would have to play like a game of chess... especially if she reacts positive. close while the buzz is high, but dont rush it either

walk up and open with what works for you in that situation, next step LAUGH and have fun with her... step close to her with a hand on her waist and talk to who she is with with a strong vibe circulating around you and your new 'dancing partner' or if you dont dance then your 'long lost buddy' i dunno, somethin lame but funny
then if she is cool with your hand on her waist, and other kino then i would use a closing set suitable for the situation

Author:  Stetson [ Fri Aug 08, 2008 2:14 pm ]
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Direct game for daygame!!!!!!!!!!!!! ! !! !! !! !



..!

Author:  ConspiracyTheory [ Fri Aug 08, 2008 2:19 pm ]
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Quote:
Hmmmm I think I've solved it, get some serious push-pull, or ass loads of kino?

- Jack
yup, both.

personally i combine them in this way, but i never really knew exactly what i was doing until i read Mehow's stuff, i would push with verbals:
HB: (says something unexpected/disagreeable)
Me: get outta here, you're crazy! (push)
then pull via kino

the reverse can work as well where you lightly push her away but then drop a compliment.

Author:  Stetson [ Fri Aug 08, 2008 2:35 pm ]
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Ass loads of kino is lame if you don't do anything other than that. The reason is that ass loads of kino is same as using the "girls way" to attract males.

So by just relying in kino'ing the girl won't work, because later on she will resist you, and in the worst case: her friends might cockblock.


The simple reason is that the girl must be able to justify her attraction to you, the point is to not get her only horny, but emotional.


Emotional is done by words.


This is why girls are grouped while, for example in clubs or bars. The enviroment is full of emotions in there so any random guy could walk up and kino the shit out of the girl to have her!

But that won't work... Her friends will cockblock the shit out of you.

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