Allow me to disagree,
There have been so many discussions about if this is real or not... I too have started out with a fake personality, an avatar and used canned material from Mystery... But that is just in the beginning. Fake it until you make it. The way I see it, I now have become the person I present when sarging. I use my own real material (most of the time) and whether the stories are real or not does not really matter. They are just used to convey a few points, preselection, leader of men, protector of loved ones. Thats it. The real lesson from learning the game is, how does attraction lead to a relationship? PUAs understand this (most of the time) and that is why there are several different methods which all work well.
Pairbonding requires (in this order)...
Woman looking for survival value (attract a male by looking healthy etc etc)
Man looking for replication (approach and attract a woman by showing social status).
Man demonstrating value - Woman demonstrating value.
Comfort building.
Woman testing mans willingness to stick around.
In this, there is no lying... She does not care if your job sucks or if your wallet is a bit thin. As long as you did not tell her your whole financial situation or that you are the president of the USA, you are safe.
Who are we, simply personalities based on our previous experiences? If yes... My friends, we are our avatars. The personalities we "fake" are just some sides of us that we choose to stress during the first interaction with that specific woman. Every single one of us have personalities with more aspects than can be discovered in several months. We simply decide in what order the women may discover them.
Wow, this was deep, hope I made any kind of sense at all...
Phoenix
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