Hi Guys!
I am new to this forum, so forgive me if I have placed something inaccurately here.
To the point: Few months ago I met a girl. 20 years old (I am 24), intelligent, witty, beautiful... I was dating quite a few girls before, but it is really rare for me to be impressed by someone. She is also really confident and knows her value (also the reason why I like her, she is not an easy target). At that time though, she was dating someone, but it ended ca. month ago.
Long story short, I have asked her out - I knew from our friends that she fancied me, so it was that much easier. From the start, she suggested almost directly, that she is interested in sex, but not only (meaning if things went ok, then who knows?). Yup, a really open-minded girl.
After a first date, we kept in touch and everything was going smoothly. Week later we went for a party together, where I was being really social, and fun-going and she couldn't keep her hands away from me. After that though, the contact has been weaker, she was responding rarely. I initiated the contact the day after a party to ask how she feels and when could we meet, but she didn't seem to be in a mood to talk. On monday I did not talk to her at all, and received some picture from her of a pizza that she has made... I responded sth, but once again, the conversation went south quite quickly. Wednesday, I asked her about the next meeting, because I wanted to plan my week. She was actually near me, I had 2-3 hours, so she came, we had sex and went our ways. Then we went silent one more time, up to today where I asked directly (kinda suspecting that at this point I am just a booty call) when could we have a proper "sex night", not 2-3 hours. She has read the message, but needed like 7-8 hours to respond that she wants one, but is sick right now and probably monday or tuesday would suit her.Woah. I know, a lot of semi-useless info there, but I wanted to give you a picture which I have gotten - meaning that I've kinda screwed up with asking too many times and became kind of a "sure deal booty call". Was sure she would go silent completely, but fortunately she responded, giving me some power back.
I actually would see myself forming something more serious with her, am just lost at what kind of steps should I take - ignore her now completely and don't respond to the message? Or respond with a delayed answer?