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I tried this and did get a conversation, all be it slow replies both ends, going. My question is how to go from the shock text to flirting when all the initial momentum of when you first met her/ got her number etc is gone?
You will have to fill it in with some interesting story, followed by some fluff text to hook her in again. I'll give you an example.
You: Got Dammit! I Gotta Tell You Something...Nevermind. (Shock Text - Bait)
HB: What?
You: This girl i know got hit by a car crossing the street, while she was playing Pokemon Go on her phone. (Shock Text Follow Up Story)
HB: OMG! is she okay? (Took The Bait)
You: She's in the hospital right now, but i'll keep you posted
HB: K
You: How are you though, you okay? (Fluff/Small Talk, Question)
HB: Yeah, are you?
You: Yeah, just in shock from what i just heard. (Fluff Continued)
You: You seem like the type to do that
HB: I seem like the type to do what?
You: Text and not pay attention to what's going on around you. LOL (Neg/Tease)
HB: LOL You're probably right. (Got Her Back Out Of The Flake Zone!)
You: I got a joke for you
HB: Tell Me (Got Her Attention & Interest Back Again)
Blah Blah Blah..Blah Blah Blah... Figure out the rest. It can go on forever. You get the picture.
1) The goal is to get her to respond using the shock text.
2) Then follow up the shock text with an interesting story.
3) Keep the thread going with fluff small talk.
4) Transition to teasing
5) To self-amusing text
6) Then to subtle sexual jokes
7) Seed the pull
8 ) Get her logistics
9) Set up a meet up/date
It won't always work because the girl did flake on you after all, so it is what it is. But the 3 strike & she's out shock text method, followed by the rest of the stuff that i listed above "step numbers 1) thru 9)" is the best way to get her back. But because her response is unpredictable (because the attraction is gone), and there's still a chance that she might not respond again..it's not a 100% guarantee. This is just a way to possibly retrieve a girl that resides in Flakeland.
Here's The 3 Strikes & She's Out Shock Text Sequence
ST1: Send her the 1st shock text. If she doesn't respond..wait 5-7 days before you send her the 2nd shock text
T&COG: Text & Call Other Girls in the meantime
ST2: 5-7 days later is here. Send her the 2nd shock text. If she doesn't respond..wait 5-7 days before you call her
T&COG: Text & Call Other Girls in the meantime
Call: 5-7 days later is here. Call her. If she doesn't respond..wait 5-7 days before you send her the 3rd shock text
T&COG: Text & Call Other Girls in the meantime
ST3: 5-7 days later is here. Send her the 3rd shock text. If she doesn't respond that day, delete her number the next day and move on. If she does respond..do step numbers 1) thru 9)
-G