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| Author: | ASmooth90 [ Sat May 02, 2015 8:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Continued escalation after back massage |
Does anyone have any cool routines for continued escalation after a back massage? Specifically, something to test for compliance before escalating. For example, the routine where you put the girl up against a wall and hold her hands above her head with one hand. If you feel her tense up, you know that you're about to get a "no," so you should take two steps back before taking another step forwards. Something similar to this, but she's seated, and you're standing behind her, massaging her back. |
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| Author: | Fiske [ Sat May 02, 2015 9:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Continued escalation after back massage |
Massaging, as a concept, is escalation. If she wasn't interested, she wouldn't have let you massage her in the first place. Yes, she complied. |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Sun May 03, 2015 2:27 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Continued escalation after back massage |
If you have gotten as far as a massage, you probably don't need a routine. In fact, a routine would probably just hurt you. Just keep escalating. |
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| Author: | ASmooth90 [ Sun May 03, 2015 7:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Continued escalation after back massage |
Routines only hurt when they're applied in the wrong context in an uncalibrated way. I want a compliance test to determine where her emotions are at before I make a bigger move and reach the point of no return. As I'm sure you experienced gents are well aware, once you get a hard "no" from a girl, continued escalation is significantly more difficult. we avoid the hard "no" by using compliance tests while escalating, and pulling back before she has a chance to say "no." Idea: back massage, transfer to hug from behind, grab her hand, if you feel her tense up, don't go for K-close, back up, and resume massage. Wash, rinse, repeat. When she's ready for K-close (and transition to F-close), she won't tense up when I continue the escalation. |
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