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| Author: | SBushuev [ Wed Jan 07, 2015 2:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | recovering after throwing the statement of intent |
I noticed that I always pause after throwing the statement of intent or a compliment. Like I'm telling this story "blablba, parachuting, dude in a slippers in a plane, blabla", then making this little statement (like "I love your voice, have you sang in choir?") and after that for some reason I freeze for couple of seconds. How can I train myself to make statements of intent without pausing? The same with kino - I sometimes need to "recover" after kino, which brings a lot of awkwardness. 
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| Author: | detox75 [ Fri Jan 09, 2015 4:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: recovering after throwing the statement of intent |
i'm hesitant to provide advice on this because im against both of those PUA tricks you are attempting to smooth out but I will advise anyway. Have some premade phrase or action that you have ready to use before you get to the awkward pause. I always advise people I'm helping that trying to eliminate some awkward behavior/idiosyncrasy is much more difficult than just finding a substitute behavior for it. So swap a destructive action out with a neutral or beneficial one. |
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| Author: | SBushuev [ Sat Jan 10, 2015 11:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: recovering after throwing the statement of intent |
Don't worry, this is not some "PUA tricks". For me statements of intent are just stuff I tell to stay in this man-to-woman mode of the conversation. Otherwise for me personally it's super easy to get back to friend-to-a-friend mode, which leads nowhere. |
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| Author: | usmanali7 [ Tue Jan 27, 2015 10:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: recovering after throwing the statement of intent |
Any advice on keeping things light, fun, and interesting? For example, I'm at a get together last night and everyone has been drinking and this girl walks up to me. (we had a thing for each other before but we were both in relationships at the time) so we start some small talk but it dies after like 5 minutes. That shit is so lame. I'm somewhat of a natural but i work so fucking much it takes a toll on my social life and the level of fun that i can be and I feel like I have to relearn some things. and this is literally my biggest sticking point right now. I'm fairly attractive, ambitious, I have balls, I have no problem going direct/sexual, but sometimes I just cant do simple small stalk shit. OR, I can't keep a conversation going and then it dies out. |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Tue Jan 27, 2015 7:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: recovering after throwing the statement of intent |
Have some canned material to say when you dont want to do small talk based on the boring shit she is saying that you are uninterested in. I have my own shit I say all the time to new prospects which I know works. If I tried to have a relevant back and forth convo based on the retarded shit most girls say to me id never get laid. |
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