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2) Night game - Away from the dance floor. "Hi. What's your name." That's literally all you need. Your body language, your touch and eye contact is way WAY more important than your opener. Your goal is not just conversation, your goal is to escalate and sexualise the interaction with your eye contact, kino, kissing and physicality. "It's like a finger pointing at the moon. Don't concentrate on the finger or you will lose all of that heavenly glory" (Bruce Lee) Right now you're focusing on the finger (the conversation itself) instead of the moon (physical seduction/sex). Stop worrying about what to say. Let her talk. Let her qualify herself and earn your attention. Let your eyes and body speak instead.

3) Dancefloor game - No opener required. Just dance and lock eyes with the girl and start dancing with her. Or high five and pull her towards you.

Author:	morrigan [ Fri Nov 28, 2014 5:55 pm ]
Post subject:	Conversation Openers - And Nothing Else
I couldn't find a thread like this, so I thought I'd start one. What I want here are just openers. Let's leave aside the theory for a minute and just post some cool things to say to open up a conversation with a woman that's more than just "Hey, how are you..." I'll begin. One that I really like and that gets good results is "You look as though you know what's going on here..." followed by a contextual question. Go at it. Let's see what you've all got.

Author:	Hunter_Foxe [ Mon Dec 01, 2014 6:18 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Conversation Openers - And Nothing Else
Depends on the context: 1) Day game - Needs to be something "boring" and situational. Indirect is better, especially in quiet places like a library. You can also go full on direct outside on the street. 2) Night game - Away from the dance floor. "Hi. What's your name." That's literally all you need. Your body language, your touch and eye contact is way WAY more important than your opener. Your goal is not just conversation, your goal is to escalate and sexualise the interaction with your eye contact, kino, kissing and physicality. "It's like a finger pointing at the moon. Don't concentrate on the finger or you will lose all of that heavenly glory" (Bruce Lee) Right now you're focusing on the finger (the conversation itself) instead of the moon (physical seduction/sex). Stop worrying about what to say. Let her talk. Let her qualify herself and earn your attention. Let your eyes and body speak instead. 3) Dancefloor game - No opener required. Just dance and lock eyes with the girl and start dancing with her. Or high five and pull her towards you. The more you talk, the more likely you are to fuck it up.

Author:	breedlove465 [ Mon Dec 01, 2014 6:45 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Conversation Openers - And Nothing Else
Quote: I couldn't find a thread like this, so I thought I'd start one. What I want here are just openers. Let's leave aside the theory for a minute and just post some cool things to say to open up a conversation with a woman that's more than just "Hey, how are you..." I'll begin. One that I really like and that gets good results is "You look as though you know what's going on here..." followed by a contextual question. Go at it. Let's see what you've all got. I find something interesting and comment on it, followed by introducing myself. I don't go clubbing, and the bars I frequent aren't the rowdy college kid type bar with a dance floor etc. So I use it pretty much everywhere. I haven't worried about improving it because it works extremely well and in my opinion it doesn't matter all that much, what I say and how I act is way more important than how I get her attention. As far as getting a girls attention your only goal should be not to creep her out. After that run your game. Some examples : -I was walking by and had to come talk to you, I love your coat, you have that whole funky vibe going on. Very cool. My name is Breedlove. -I love your style. You must work in fashion or do some kind of design? My name is Breedlove by the way. -I love that dress, I almost wore one just like it, how embarrassing, right? -You have a lovely smile, it makes me want to come over and say hello.

Author:	morrigan [ Wed Dec 03, 2014 6:41 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Conversation Openers - And Nothing Else
Quote: 2) Night game - Away from the dance floor. "Hi. What's your name." That's literally all you need. Your body language, your touch and eye contact is way WAY more important than your opener. Your goal is not just conversation, your goal is to escalate and sexualise the interaction with your eye contact, kino, kissing and physicality. "It's like a finger pointing at the moon. Don't concentrate on the finger or you will lose all of that heavenly glory" (Bruce Lee) Right now you're focusing on the finger (the conversation itself) instead of the moon (physical seduction/sex). Stop worrying about what to say. Let her talk. Let her qualify herself and earn your attention. Let your eyes and body speak instead. 3) Dancefloor game - No opener required. Just dance and lock eyes with the girl and start dancing with her. Or high five and pull her towards you. I'm starting to realise how true this is. I always used to panic about what to say to girls in nightclubs, but in reality you can talk absolute rubbish and if she's into you it won't hurt your chances. "What's your name" is a good opener - nice a simple. Love it.

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Dec 03, 2014 7:09 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Conversation Openers - And Nothing Else
It matters not what you say. But how (and when) you say it.

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Author:	ConsciousLuv [ Thu Dec 04, 2014 1:15 pm ]
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My name is breedlove. Dr. Breedlove.

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