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Author:  asiancowb0y [ Wed Mar 12, 2008 1:46 am ]
Post subject:  need some help on a girl reversing the QUALIFYING
I told a really hot target to tell me 3 things besides her looks that would make me want to know her better via an online personal as STYLE (Neil Strauss) has suggested.

She has replied back with this:

"Better yet why don't you give me three reasons why I should take the time to tell you about myself.

Morgan"


I have no idea what to do when they throw this back in my face. Any suggestions or experience in this area would be greatly appreciated, fellow PUA.
Author:  Introvert [ Wed Mar 12, 2008 1:58 am ]
Post subject:  Re: need some help on a girl reversing the QUALIFYING
Quote:
I told a really hot target to tell me 3 things besides her looks that would make me want to know her better via an online personal as STYLE (Neil Strauss) has suggested.

She has replied back with this:

"Better yet why don't you give me three reasons why I should take the time to tell you about myself.

Morgan"


I have no idea what to do when they throw this back in my face. Any suggestions or experience in this area would be greatly appreciated, fellow PUA.
What, nothing interesting about you?
Author:  asiancowb0y [ Wed Mar 12, 2008 2:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: need some help on a girl reversing the QUALIFYING
Quote:
Quote:
I told a really hot target to tell me 3 things besides her looks that would make me want to know her better via an online personal as STYLE (Neil Strauss) has suggested.

She has replied back with this:

"Better yet why don't you give me three reasons why I should take the time to tell you about myself.

Morgan"


I have no idea what to do when they throw this back in my face. Any suggestions or experience in this area would be greatly appreciated, fellow PUA.
What, nothing interesting about you?
Lots of interesting things..but I figured if I answered then I would be JUMPING THROUGH HER HOOPS? Isn't that what I want to avoid?
Author:  Introvert [ Wed Mar 12, 2008 2:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: need some help on a girl reversing the QUALIFYING
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
I told a really hot target to tell me 3 things besides her looks that would make me want to know her better via an online personal as STYLE (Neil Strauss) has suggested.

She has replied back with this:

"Better yet why don't you give me three reasons why I should take the time to tell you about myself.

Morgan"


I have no idea what to do when they throw this back in my face. Any suggestions or experience in this area would be greatly appreciated, fellow PUA.
What, nothing interesting about you?
Lots of interesting things..but I figured if I answered then I would be JUMPING THROUGH HER HOOPS? Isn't that what I want to avoid?
No I meant that's something to say to the girl =P. Play it so it seems like she's just avoiding the question, and if she doesn't answer she must not be interesting and good enough.
Author:  asiancowb0y [ Wed Mar 12, 2008 1:58 pm ]
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Any other suggestions in case she tries to re-hoop me?
Author:  struct [ Wed Mar 12, 2008 11:16 pm ]
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I wouldn't put much into this girl, shes going to be high maintenance, I would put her in her place right off the bat, if she doesn't respond move on. You dont have time to play games on HER court.

I'd be like:

Quote:
Do you think your time is actually more valuable then mine? It seems like your ego is on the same scale as your looks, we'll have to tone that down a couple levels.

Well I'll start with one: Because Im more fun and interesting then all these cyber geeks you can pick up online.

Now, back to the question your highness :)
Now you can play around an edit that how you want, i didnt put any thought or time into it, but you get the point. I'd probably send it as is. Don't let a girl size you up, you'll never get her.
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Author:  asiancowb0y [ Wed Mar 12, 2008 11:22 pm ]
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Quote:
I wouldn't put much into this girl, shes going to be high maintenance, I would put her in her place right off the bat, if she doesn't respond move on. You dont have time to play games on HER court.

I'd be like:

Quote:
Do you think your time is actually more valuable then mine? It seems like your ego is on the same scale as your looks, we'll have to tone that down a couple levels.

Well I'll start with one: Because Im more fun and interesting then all these cyber geeks you can pick up online.

Now, back to the question your highness :)
Now you can play around an edit that how you want, i didnt put any thought or time into it, but you get the point. I'd probably send it as is. Don't let a girl size you up, you'll never get her.
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Man that sounds pretty hardcore.... Her looks are not even THAT GREAT..I mean she's hot ..but not THAT HOT. Is this what I should say to her then? She's about a 7 on looks...pretty hot..but not ULTRA HOT. Plus her profile seemed pretty down to earth....
Author:  struct [ Wed Mar 12, 2008 11:39 pm ]
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yeah add another smiley face in there somewhere and type 'please' before answer the question your highness. If you want to make it look less aggressive.

Thats not hardcore, your establishing yourself cocky/sarcastic/funny while establishing you are indeed not a needy/wimp.

Oh yeah as far as her being a 7, that statement works great.
1) she doesnt know how hot YOU think she is. She could view her self as a 4 and take it as a compliment.
2) if shes just a 7, you have nothing to loose and shouldnt waste your time. Learn what works.

She will dig it, do it and it if works give me some rep boy!
Author:  sydarm [ Thu Mar 13, 2008 1:14 am ]
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Man up and say something that an AFC never would in this situation. I don't remember who said this quote (i've read/watch so much pua shit its a blur), but it goes: "the best way to keep her is to not be afraid of losing her". I think that translates absolutely to online game. By saying something like what was mentioned above, u show that ur not scared that she'll close u for saying it...you have options, choice, u don't need her. If u can't take her shit how are u supposed to protect her from the outside world if u got in a relationship? Handle your business.
Author:  asiancowb0y [ Thu Mar 13, 2008 2:23 am ]
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I ended up going with what JSMOOTH said...thanks for everyone's helps/suggestions:



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jsmooth37076 wrote:
asiancowb0y wrote:
I'm trying to get this girl from match dot com..she looks pretty hot..not the hottest and had a pretty down-to-earth profile.

I told the hot target to tell me 3 things besides her looks that would make me want to know her better via an online personal as STYLE (Neil Strauss) has suggested.

She has replied back with this:

"Better yet why don't you give me three reasons why I should take the time to tell you about myself.

Morgan"


I have no idea what to do when they throw this back in my face. Any suggestions or experience in this area would be greatly appreciated, fellow PUA.

I posted this also at: building attraction & comfort sub-forum (please look there)
Some forum guys have suggested some things but I guess you'd be the ONLINE GURU...I would appreciate any help. =)


Wow, that's a tough one. Man we really walked right into this one. Okay we tried to take the 10 frame and seize control of the frame and conversation. She fired back in our face with her frame. If we respond with something smartass we'll get the bitch shield and the delete button. If we come across qualifying to her we lose. So what do we do? We back up and punt. We have to find a way for both you and her to save face.

I personally would say something back like, "I'll give you one good reason, you're a lot like me. I don't like jumping through people's hoops either. I'm pretty high maintenance and it looks like your the same way too. Let's start this over, I'm AsianCowboy."

This way we're building comfort by finding a common ground. No one looses face, and you're the bigger person. I greatly hope it helps.

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Author:  Simpua [ Tue Mar 18, 2008 6:55 pm ]
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AsianCowboy, how far into the conversation did you wait to ask her that? Her response makes it seem like you practically skipped A2. You need to DHV without showing interest first so that she wants to qualify herself to you.
Author:  asiancowb0y [ Tue Mar 18, 2008 7:38 pm ]
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Quote:
AsianCowboy, how far into the conversation did you wait to ask her that? Her response makes it seem like you practically skipped A2. You need to DHV without showing interest first so that she wants to qualify herself to you.

I don't know how to DHV...can you help give me examples of that? I don't know how to DHV via online....
Author:  PuaNegGuy [ Tue Mar 18, 2008 9:30 pm ]
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yeah I was thinking the exact same thing as the last guy as i was reading down. You need to build attraction DHV her by getting a little conversation going and tell some good stories. You might want to convey leader of men, preselection by women willingness to emote and protector of loved ones in your profile somehow so she can see it.

I have a lot of more info for you pm me if you would like a little more advice, but as for now i gotta go.

good luck man
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