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| Author: | Hugo Blackhart [ Tue Mar 11, 2008 6:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | how to stop/overcome a needy behaviour |
i got this issue of being needy half way through my game..im not jus talking about club/bar setting but all around..i met gals,got the number.. made few phone calls, texts n go on dates .. after telling em im attached..they will shut off i assured them its still ok..there gals who were initial ok with the idea then i got into a needy phase in my future advances..makes me look pathetic and drives them away im asian in our culture its taboo to be seeing someone else when u attach..called me selfish but i jus want them to continue going out as if its ok.. any good way to deal with the needy behaviour i know attraction is universal..cultures and personal status dun really matter.. |
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| Author: | kiwi-indian [ Wed Mar 12, 2008 7:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how to stop/overcome a needy behaviour |
Quote: i got this issue of being needy half way through my game..im not jus talking about club/bar setting but all around..i met gals,got the number.. made few phone calls, texts n go on dates ..
I am a little confused about what exactly the problem is here. What do you mean by attached? Are you saying you've already got a gf and when you tell the other girls that you've got one they get turned off you? Well what did you expect?!after telling em im attached..they will shut off i assured them its still ok..there gals who were initial ok with the idea then i got into a needy phase in my future advances..makes me look pathetic and drives them away im asian in our culture its taboo to be seeing someone else when u attach..called me selfish but i jus want them to continue going out as if its ok.. any good way to deal with the needy behaviour i know attraction is universal..cultures and personal status dun really matter.. Unless of course I've misunderstood what you mean by attached. I guess you could also mean that you're now "hooked on the girl". Of course you don't tell them that!!! Never tell a girl you like her directly. Let your actions do the talking. Only ever tell a girl you love her when you're asking her to marry you! |
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| Author: | Hugo Blackhart [ Wed Mar 12, 2008 9:08 am ] |
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thnx for the reply..im pretty sure i wasnt so clear..on my issues..anyway what i mean was im in an LTR..so wen gals find out bout this they begin to back out..so lost another great fren.. anyway i found the cure for my needy issue..as i was reading other post..i guess i continue reading more post until i got real issue in my game..thnx again.. |
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| Author: | kiwi-indian [ Wed Mar 12, 2008 9:46 am ] |
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Quote: thnx for the reply..im pretty sure i wasnt so clear..on my issues..anyway what i mean was im in an LTR..so wen gals find out bout this they begin to back out..so lost another great fren..
Even if you have found your answer might I still give a suggestion. It's ok to want LTR. I want that too. But you can't just come across as someone who wants LTR. Just go with the flow is the best advice I can give you. Make a girl like you and become more interested in you (and this forum has HEAPS of material on this) then you will automatically establish a LTR with her.
anyway i found the cure for my needy issue..as i was reading other post..i guess i continue reading more post until i got real issue in my game..thnx again.. |
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