PUA Forum :: Did I get flaked?

Ask her to hang out again/date again. And remind her on the day before this time around. If she bails again say 'let me know when you have time' (or something along those lines) and leave it there. Maybe check back again after a week or 2 if you really like her. After that, leave it to her to ask you out.

Well done on the number close. Sounds like a ditsy flake. If you're looking for a good time, I don't think you're very far off. Set something up over the phone instead of text. I'd have to disagree with jeffyp here - Don't act grumpy about her flaking. Her loss right?

Have something planned besides "hanging out" before you call, make a pitch, and call it a day. Need date ideas? - I could suggest a few. But forgive her ditsy-ness and lead her hand around [and I mean that physically and emotionally]. So if she flakes plenty - on to the next one I suppose. Who cares ? She's definitely not good relationship material anyway if she's fucking around while having a boyfriend. You're closer than you think. Have fun.

You did something really stupid: You didn't confirm your date was still on. You can't just ask someone out a week in advance, not mention it or talk to them for a week then randomly message them on the day asking if they're ready. It's stupid.

Message them the day before to make sure they're still down for it. So many retards on here who go NC once they get an agreed upon date. You need to confirm these things with people.

Author:	vink [ Mon Jun 16, 2014 11:20 am ]
Post subject:	Did I get flaked?
Wassup guys! So I met this HB8 a week ago, we hit it off pretty well, I got her number, deal. So, after texting her and building some rapport. I set up a date with her for last Sunday, ie, yesterday. One hour before our date I texted her, "Are you getting all sexy for our meeting, right?", then she text me back this, "OMG since you didn't tell me anything yesterday I didn't we would meet today and I'm not in town." bla bla long short story she was feeling bad, I'm guessing for the use of really depressing emojis. Anyway, I haven't texted her and I don't know if I got flaked, what do you guys think? what should I do? PD: She actually has a boyfriend, but she like doesn't give a fuck about him, since he lives in another city and they've been dating for very short, and she flirts with me so, I don't think that contributed to her flake. Thanks!

Author:	jeffyp [ Mon Jun 16, 2014 3:40 pm ]
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Ask her to hang out again/date again. And remind her on the day before this time around. If she bails again say 'let me know when you have time' (or something along those lines) and leave it there. Maybe check back again after a week or 2 if you really like her. After that, leave it to her to ask you out.

Author:	vink [ Tue Jun 17, 2014 7:14 am ]
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Quote: Ask her to hang out again/date again. And remind her on the day before this time around. If she bails again say 'let me know when you have time' (or something along those lines) and leave it there. Maybe check back again after a week or 2 if you really like her. After that, leave it to her to ask you out. But, should immediately ask her to hangout again - or should I build some more rapport; since, I haven't talked to her since that day.

Author:	shinebright [ Wed Jun 18, 2014 5:53 pm ]
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No rapport only find out logistics, meet at a good place next to the sex location, have fun at the first venue ,then do a mini venue swap , for extra comfort this takes like 10 15 mins then go to the sex location

Author:	RunTheNumbers [ Thu Jun 19, 2014 2:56 am ]
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mini venue swap is a great suggestion for your situation for building comfort

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Author:	shinebright [ Fri Jun 20, 2014 1:29 am ]
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Quote: Well done on the number close. Sounds like a ditsy flake. If you're looking for a good time, I don't think you're very far off. Set something up over the phone instead of text. I'd have to disagree with jeffyp here - Don't act grumpy about her flaking. Her loss right? Have something planned besides "hanging out" before you call, make a pitch, and call it a day. Need date ideas? - I could suggest a few. But forgive her ditsy-ness and lead her hand around [and I mean that physically and emotionally]. So if she flakes plenty - on to the next one I suppose. Who cares ? She's definitely not good relationship material anyway if she's fucking around while having a boyfriend. You're closer than you think. Have fun. Hey DA read your "journal" did you have sex yet bro

Author:	GamesSN [ Fri Jun 20, 2014 1:43 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Did I get flaked?
You did something really stupid: You didn't confirm your date was still on. You can't just ask someone out a week in advance, not mention it or talk to them for a week then randomly message them on the day asking if they're ready. It's stupid. Message them the day before to make sure they're still down for it. So many retards on here who go NC once they get an agreed upon date. You need to confirm these things with people.

Author:	vink [ Fri Jun 20, 2014 10:05 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Did I get flaked?
Quote: You did something really stupid: You didn't confirm your date was still on. You can't just ask someone out a week in advance, not mention it or talk to them for a week then randomly message them on the day asking if they're ready. It's stupid. Message them the day before to make sure they're still down for it. So many retards on here who go NC once they get an agreed upon date. You need to confirm these things with people. It wasn't one week in advance, it was 3 days - also, I was talking to her the days before dude, I didn't say that I didn't talk to her, I just didn't talk to her about the meeting after the arrangement. Anyways, I already set up another date with her, no big deal Also, thanks Da for the advise - helped a lot

Author:	GamesSN [ Fri Jun 20, 2014 3:35 pm ]
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Either way you have to confirm the day before. This time confirm with her the day before your date and the day of the date like you did originally. After that, if she changes plans or "something comes up" on the day then you'll have a clearer understanding of whether or not she flaked on you.

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