Preface-
I am going to log some of my beliefs and what has worked for me,personal goals and mistakes that have effected my game in the hopes that sharing these will both help others and strengthen my own understanding of THE GAME. Not everyone will have the same style or opinion on things but can't argue results
. This is my routine and it works almost every time!.
Credentials-
Through my whole life I have always managed to get nice looking girls through a combination of charisma and dumb luck...unfortunately when luck runs out your just dumb, and I lost a lot of opportunity through this. I am able to get numbers no problem...it seems to be the rest I have problems with :/.
My Personal Routine-
1. "What ever you do, do it boldly"-Robert Greene- When I approach a girl I make sure to have a sarcastic swave about me, and boldness (not arrogance) trust me girls can smell a fake
,you have to believe what your selling!. I make sure that I know what I want(there number) and that they know what I want, most girls WILL give you a chance.2.DON'T WAIT!-- For the sake of PUA god please don't hesitate!, if you do this chick will move,walk or carry on her business. This is one area I fail and fail again...some guys never learn...something ANYTHING! just get this girls attention!.
3.Time constraint-This one always works, and girls love you for it. I always make sure to say I'm on a time crunch(pick your excuse). This way shes not feeling trapped by your presence, where all busy people and have stuff to do time is precious, don't waste it.
4.Witt and humor- I think we all know this can make a girl feel at ease, be positive and be able to be witty (comments and humor are bullets,make sure you don't get shot down!). Advice on this---> As silly as it sounds read Shakespear(I might do a whole post to justify this but for now...) if you can untangle the mess of words and underlining in old english poetry, its really witty, and what your doing is an act of the same nature
.5.Ask for the number- A lot of guys suggest you don't ask for the number directly, but instead ask how you can get a hold of her later. I'm too much of a straight shooter for this, I just ask, I've never been told no so far and it makes things clear!.
6.......... Once you get the number,well.... this is where I drop the ball, In the last two weeks with this method I've managed several numbers. and I end up texting them within the day?. Perhaps I wait a certain amount of time?. Either way again people are busy, but I keep getting froze out it feels like...more on this as it develops.
Close- Well I hope you've learned something from this, please try it and tell me how it works for you,also, if you have anything to add or questions for me please leave a comment(I put these up for two reasons 1. Personal log and 2. FEEDBACK!).
Thanks again
-Compass