| PUA Forum https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/ |
|
| Elicting Values (EV) https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=55&t=17268 |
Page 1 of 1 |
| Author: | Incubus69 [ Thu Feb 21, 2008 12:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Elicting Values (EV) |
I read on www.seductionbase.com on Electing Values. It was quite simple because it refers to having the HB devulge more info to you. The more info and more emotions behind it will build up the attraction between you two. Somewhere I read that it's important to ask about her passions like school, job, personal life, family, friends. Not religious or politics beliefs. Some of the questions would be: "What are your fondest and sweetess day of school?" "Do you remember the time when you were completely head over heels about a person...how did it feel?" This will get strong emotions elicited. "What do you like best about your job?" "What do you think I am like?" This will be a indicator of what she percieves of you and whether she likes you or not. Note: don't be a idiot and ask this right off the bat. She doesn't evn know you so how is she gonna tell you how she thinks about you. Women are emotional creatures; they don't look at something and judge it, rather than judge by feeling. "What do people know about you?" This is good because it could go into a cold-reading trick or a palm-reading trick. "What do you think of yourself?" HOpe this helps! Thanks for reading my posts! I really appreciate it! Also, thanks for your feedback as well! |
|
| Author: | surgemaster [ Thu Feb 21, 2008 5:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | |
I like this post. Think the questions here can be used a lot. Not too sure if i would use them in the attraction or the comfort phase. Probably both. The question that made me take most notice was the one about when the HB fancied someone. This is often used by Ross Jeffries in speed seduction. He takes it to a whole other extreme and tries to make the girl associate those values with him. In fact, i think i read about it in Strauss' The Game. Personally, i think the question is enough to get the emotions going and, combined with perfectly executed kino, will result in the HB really getting in the mood. One thing i have to say is that questions like this, if asked incorrectly, can sound like a routine to the girl. Like something you ask everyone. Although not a necessity, i always try and link each question with what was just talked about. Unless of course i need a total change of thread (becuase she is starting to talk to her boyfriend or something). Like i say after all my comments. If you disagree with me please let me know! Great post mate. Keep them coming. |
|
| Author: | slyder2412 [ Thu Feb 21, 2008 8:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
I've never reallly done this but i'm going to start. I've always been very wary of not showing too much interest. I think the fact that i've approached her and continue talking to her (even with disinterested body language)...shows enough interest on my part as it is. I've NEVER tried a pure direct caveman approach....but anyway. When would it be best to incorperate these types of questions? I would think after she has showed me some value so she deserves more attentive questions....but that's just a hunch. |
|
| Author: | parodoxicalplay [ Sat Feb 23, 2008 1:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | |
nice one. girls love to talk about themselves. if you have nothing to talk about let them talk about themselves while you gather your thoughts for the next move.. |
|
| Author: | NickRicca [ Sat Feb 23, 2008 7:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Elicting Values (EV) |
Quote: "Do you remember the time when you were completely head over heels about a person...how did it feel?" This will get strong emotions elicited.
this could lead her to talking about past bad relationship endings... and ancor them to you... you know, like if she had her "heart-broken"...
|
|
| Author: | tov [ Thu Mar 06, 2008 1:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
I'm with Nick on this one. As a rule, I never bring up past relationships, because apparently, they ended. If you want to bring att. from past feelings/memories, try asking who was her celebrity crush and why. Maybe not celeb crush, but a crush way back when. This lowers the chance for a negative response and seems as a playful banter. Maybe it's just me. |
|
| Author: | Sherlock [ Tue Mar 11, 2008 9:47 am ] |
| Post subject: | |
I think what nick mentioned is valid but a good variation that has worked for me in the past is pointing her in the direction of the good feelings specifically. eg. "how good does it feel when you're with someone and you get those butterflys in your stomach? even if you dont know exactly why you're getting them" it's worked for me plenty of times with only an occaisonal bad response.. the worst response being "thats kinda corny" Hope that helps |
|
| Page 1 of 1 | All times are UTC |
| Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group http://www.phpbb.com/ |
|