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| Author: | mcmanimal85 [ Fri Nov 08, 2013 8:21 am ] |
| Post subject: | unsuccessful Date with musician HB7 at concert, what next ? |
Hey whats up fellas, was having conversation ending no replies via text from HB7 for two days, but she decided to text me early in the morning about something from the previous day I decided to ignore the text until later at night because I was busy and had things to take care of. When I decided to text her back with: ME: Busy Busy Day!!! What are you up to, cutie ? HB7: (immediate Response) Ima go to (the venue) and see ( the artist) this old soul dude. You ? ( we have spoken about how this is my favorite genre of music before) ME: My last concert at the (venue) was fun and crazy! Whats your drink of choice when your out ? HB7: (immediate) Jamo HB7: Jameson HB: You Should come... ME: Ahh a woman after my big ole irish heart : ) ME: What time ? HB7: We are heading there at like 9 ME: ( very AFC on my part) I'll see you there HB7: Word I spot HB7 with her sister, I did not realize that her sister was going to be with her during this but no worries. I head over and give them both hugs and talk. HB7 is a local musician and is completely surrounded by tons of other musicians that she knows. Person after person that walks by is a musician that knows her and stops to talk, she introduces me to them, we have some chit chat and then the music begins so we move closer to the stage. After a minute HB7 disappears into the crowd, so I say fuck it the music is great I'm going to have a great time and head up by the stage and dance and have a great time without seeing her until that act ends. I meet up with her sister and her again and we talk and hang out I tell a few stories and get some laughs out of them. As the main artist comes on we are dancing next to each other. After a few songs HB7 disappears again and ends up talking to musician friends so I keep dancing and having fun. When HB7 comes back she finds me in the crowd and comes right next to me to dance for the rest of the concert, when we'd talk I'd put my hand on her hip or lower back but there didn't seem to be a right time to escalate or kino. When the concert ended we realized how close we live to each other and chatted for a bit. I proposed hanging longer to watch a movie, she declined saying that she has to be up really early to head on tour the next day. I walk her and her sister and their room mate to his car. She wanted to know if I was coming to her show this Saturday and gave me a hug before getting in her car. The concert was fun and the music was great, with regards to HB7 it left much to be desired. What should I have done differently ? any and all advice and critiques welcome! |
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| Author: | 6ix [ Mon Nov 11, 2013 5:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: unsuccessful Date with musician HB7 at concert, what nex |
She obviously wants to see you again, which is a good sign. But definitely you should Kino way more. When Im out with a girl, I initiate kino immediately to get her used to being physical. When I first see the "you look so huggable today, give me one." followed by "that's all you get for now." nice effective push pull that puts you in control. So definitely kino more and set the tone. This girl seems interested in you. Just take control and shes yours |
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| Author: | afcAL [ Tue Nov 12, 2013 2:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: unsuccessful Date with musician HB7 at concert, what nex |
Quote: The concert was fun and the music was great, with regards to HB7 it left much to be desired. What should I have done differently ?
You went out and enjoyed yourself. Don't beat yourself up and focus on what you should have done. You will see her again.Al |
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| Author: | Philrg [ Tue Nov 19, 2013 6:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: unsuccessful Date with musician HB7 at concert, what nex |
Sounds like you did ok. But you should of done at least a little kino, if just a little hand playing action. (I made this error last saturday). And also asking her to see a movie after a concert is gay, after a concert, people want to, 1) go home and sleep, 2) go out and drink for a little bit, talk about the music etc,( or go out and get distoryed) but if you was drinking at the venue then maybe wasn't relevant. 3) get to eat something before bed time. But asking to see a movie after a concert is...............i dunno, dont sound right. Lets hope you made a good impression with her sister. Just give it 2/3 days before you txt her. Disclaimer Although I am only ex PUA ( 23 to 27) now AFC after a long time out the game so refer to the more experience guys on here before taking any of my advise for now. |
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