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| Author: | Tr@veler [ Thu Oct 24, 2013 2:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | When you tell a girl "we're not having sex tonight" |
Hey guys, just a quick question. Never used this line ever lol. But my only main concern is if you use this line say when you're at your or her place, and you want to play this card of "We're not having sex tonight" or "We should probably take it slow" to flip the script on her, and then she calls you out on it as you keep going, what do you say/do to that. You are incongruent to your words are you not? Or do you say it with a cheeky smile on your face? 
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| Author: | jamesd31 [ Tue Nov 12, 2013 9:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When you tell a girl "we're not having sex tonight" |
I would say it in a kind of serious face but change topics really fast, as to not keep the "serious" vibe and make her question it herself - instead of you putting off the vibe you REALLY don't want it. I tried something recently about saying how I have a tiny dick; how many girls wonder if I am telling the truth or not and how many want to find out, is crazy. I say it in a typical normal voice, as if it was normal conversation. |
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| Author: | JJoj [ Wed Nov 20, 2013 4:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When you tell a girl "we're not having sex tonight" |
Girls absolutely hate that. It's like the worst form of rejection you can imagine. |
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| Author: | maxtazm [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 7:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When you tell a girl "we're not having sex tonight" |
ya tell her you are celibate, she will get turned on by challenging it. |
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| Author: | In$tinct [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 1:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When you tell a girl "we're not having sex tonight" |
If she calls me out, I just keep this ambivalent stuff going on. I'm telling her:"You're right we totally shouldn't be doing this" and while I'm saying this I'm kissing her neck and moving my hands around her body. It makes them laugh and they get turned on too. |
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| Author: | .Sage. [ Mon Dec 09, 2013 6:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When you tell a girl "we're not having sex tonight" |
Yeah the whole point of this is to give it that forbidden vibe. Girls adore it, just knowing they're doing something 'bad' in general gives them a rush. |
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| Author: | vandamn [ Sun Jan 26, 2014 11:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When you tell a girl "we're not having sex tonight" |
I've told a girl, "I'm not looking to have sex with you...I just want to enjoy your company." It drove her nuts, and she had my pants off by the end of the night. I've also said (at 10 p.m.), "Let's go back to your place, but we are not having sex tonight. I promise." As it escalates and you push, she gives the LMR, "I thought you said we weren't having sex tonight." My response, "That was last night...It's now 1 a.m. and we are on our second date." It worked 
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| Author: | Paul Ray [ Mon Oct 06, 2014 11:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When you tell a girl "we're not having sex tonight" |
I've used this line so many times its in my bag of tricks it works like a charm. Remember, you use this to make her invest in you. It also brings her guard down. Girls love a challenge, no guys ever tell them this so its like an interrupt pattern. I wouldn't worry about it her ever calling you out on it and if she does, tell her how hot she makes you can you can't control yourself. This will drive her even more crazy because now she will feel sexy and attracted. Win Win Situation! |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Wed Oct 08, 2014 6:27 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When you tell a girl "we're not having sex tonight" |
When you say it, there is an implicit understanding that A) you want to have sex with her, and B) there's nothing really standing in the way of it happening. So when she calls you out on it she is really just playing into the game, making it sort of like a playful shit test. She's not really trying to call you out, nor does she care that you are lying. She's just trying to see how you'll maneuver your way around that question, adding to her excitement and amusement in the process. The thing is, if you are already making out with her, which you should be at that point anyway, then you need to pull back and tell her that you shouldn't be doing this, you aren't going to have sex, yadda yadda. That's putting a big freeze on her because she should already be wet and now you are backing away leaving her feeling rejected. The only thing she can do is re-initiate the physical activity, and by then she is the one who is giving the green light and being the sexual aggressor. Words are meaningless at that point, as you will be too busy getting ready to bang then to worry about whatever BS lies you said earlier. |
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| Author: | PLAYER_MKD90 [ Mon Nov 24, 2014 4:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When you tell a girl "we're not having sex tonight" |
i agree with every advice given here and i want to make an quote: "Never listen women words,but read her bodylaungage" change her mode not her mind its classic advice but its gold. |
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