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Author:  stardux [ Mon Sep 30, 2013 7:19 am ]
Post subject:  Conversation when there is already interest/social validatio

Most of the time, when I have to talk to girls I'm interested in, I am in situations that do not require the typical PUA technology with an oppener, hook point, etc.

Indeed, either we've:

- Danced a little and enjoyed it
- Been introduced by friends and we are now sitting on a sofa next to each other for the rest of the evening
- The conversation just naturally started for any reason at the bar

In all cases, it's clear there is a mutual interest

Still, I don't know how/if to use all the typical PUA technology in such cases, because most of them are not necessary and would look awkward: holding hands, DHVs, pull-push, etc.

I just need to chat casually untill I kiss her outside, take a cab and fuck her.

I don't know what to talk about in such cases, where the girl already likes me, is smart and friendly, does not need that I prove I'm the leader of man or pre-qualified by women,.. and just wants some casual talking from me, because that's the way things are done or simply because it's too early in the evening to go back to my/her place.

Thanks for your help

Author:  Tr@veler [ Wed Oct 02, 2013 11:08 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Conversation when there is already interest/social valid

Quote:
Most of the time, when I have to talk to girls I'm interested in, I am in situations that do not require the typical PUA technology with an oppener, hook point, etc.

Indeed, either we've:

- Danced a little and enjoyed it
- Been introduced by friends and we are now sitting on a sofa next to each other for the rest of the evening
- The conversation just naturally started for any reason at the bar

In all cases, it's clear there is a mutual interest

Still, I don't know how/if to use all the typical PUA technology in such cases, because most of them are not necessary and would look awkward: holding hands, DHVs, pull-push, etc.

I just need to chat casually untill I kiss her outside, take a cab and fuck her.

I don't know what to talk about in such cases, where the girl already likes me, is smart and friendly, does not need that I prove I'm the leader of man or pre-qualified by women,.. and just wants some casual talking from me, because that's the way things are done or simply because it's too early in the evening to go back to my/her place.

Thanks for your help
Just stay cool, have fun, keep touching her lightly. If you can get her to be on "your side" so you guys are a team (have inside jokes, inside roleplays, build a deeper connection by getting to know about her past, about her passions, about her family, etc.) then you should be golden because she will have that only with you. Inside jokes and roleplays are amazing in such situations, because it really isolates the two of you. Then just stay cool and invite her over later on.

Author:  El Hombre [ Wed Oct 02, 2013 8:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Conversation when there is already interest/social valid

Quote:
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Most of the time, when I have to talk to girls I'm interested in, I am in situations that do not require the typical PUA technology with an oppener, hook point, etc.

Indeed, either we've:

- Danced a little and enjoyed it
- Been introduced by friends and we are now sitting on a sofa next to each other for the rest of the evening
- The conversation just naturally started for any reason at the bar

In all cases, it's clear there is a mutual interest

Still, I don't know how/if to use all the typical PUA technology in such cases, because most of them are not necessary and would look awkward: holding hands, DHVs, pull-push, etc.

I just need to chat casually untill I kiss her outside, take a cab and fuck her.

I don't know what to talk about in such cases, where the girl already likes me, is smart and friendly, does not need that I prove I'm the leader of man or pre-qualified by women,.. and just wants some casual talking from me, because that's the way things are done or simply because it's too early in the evening to go back to my/her place.

Thanks for your help
Just stay cool, have fun, keep touching her lightly. If you can get her to be on "your side" so you guys are a team (have inside jokes, inside roleplays, build a deeper connection by getting to know about her past, about her passions, about her family, etc.) then you should be golden because she will have that only with you. Inside jokes and roleplays are amazing in such situations, because it really isolates the two of you. Then just stay cool and invite her over later on.
amen to that. some guys are too busy thinking of what technique to use, what's next? what should say? i have to kiss her now... oh no later? they fucked up most of the time, most of all they forgot who they are!
just play it cool bro and be yourself. kudos

Author:  stardux [ Sat Oct 05, 2013 3:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Conversation when there is already interest/social valid

Two thumbs up

Great advice

Thanks!

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