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| Author: | Lupin [ Sat Feb 09, 2008 11:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | mixed signals, kinda confused |
Im gettin mixed signals from this girl. To start off im still in high school. Theres this girl thats in a couple of my classes and she flirts with me alot. Its weird though cause sometimes i think she's really into me one day, and then the next day i try to talk to her shes in a bad mood or it seems like shes ignoring me. So i'll kinda just ignore her about 2 or 3 days and then she does the same thing, where she'll start to flirt and joke around. Since im still in high school its kinda hard to pull off some game, so i just try to have an alpha male outlook on things. The reason that im confused is that sometimes if im just sittin there or walking to class she'll say stuff like "i love you jason" or she'll answer " because i like you". I make her laugh all the time, but its when she ignores me and stuff that i get confused. If someone could shed some light on this for me or tell me if im reading these signals wrong that'd really help me out. |
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| Author: | Paetar [ Sun Feb 10, 2008 10:27 am ] |
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You are reading these signals right. Have trust in your eyes and ears, and frame. It is simple high-school syndrome (especially at the younger/unexperienced girls) - she is trying to game you. Now, my opinion is that she sees you either as a total AFC, who should be happy that some girl talks to him, or she sees you as a god, who isn't gaming her, which hurts her, and makes her try to qualify to you. Or she has a hell of a moodswings, and if it's true, if I were in your shoes, I'd back down. Anyways, she is probably into you and that's okay. Try to hit it off (suggest some coffee or whatever) and watch her react. If she doesn't want to, forget about her. But if she does go for it, you have an easy game there. Be interesting and funny, that's all you need. Carpe Diem. |
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| Author: | Lupin [ Sun Feb 10, 2008 6:01 pm ] |
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thanks for the advice paetar. its just whenever i act like im not interested in her she trys to get my attention, and then when i try to give her attention she backs away or acts like she isnt interested. Its like a never ending cycle and i dont know how to react to it, so its kinda hard to ask her to go out and stuff. |
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| Author: | Reno99 [ Mon Feb 11, 2008 4:58 pm ] |
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Okay, if she says something like "I love you Jason" say "Yeah? I'il have to take you out then or "Yeah? go out with me"  And get a good response, if not then just give the cold shoulder for a while, Talk and have fun with someone else, create some jelausy, at the next Inidicator Of Interest, you demonstrate your percistance without hesitation. cus you know what you want, and if you can't have it, it's not worth having 
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| Author: | Chino Kapone [ Mon Feb 11, 2008 5:33 pm ] |
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Quote: thanks for the advice paetar. its just whenever i act like im not interested in her she trys to get my attention, and then when i try to give her attention she backs away or acts like she isnt interested. Its like a never ending cycle and i dont know how to react to it, so its kinda hard to ask her to go out and stuff.
Do not ask her out when she says she loves you. Instead neg her. Something like "You love me? Theres a line of girls that love me. Right now your number 13. Your gonna have to work harder if you want to move up a few spots." Something to that effect with a cocky funny smile.You gotta toy with her right back because right now she is gaming YOU. She is just looking for the male attention. I wonder how many other guys she is doing this to in her other classes. Freeze her out. Don't try and talk to her, instead make it a point to talk to all the other girls in class. The hotter the better. Don't let her intterupt you while you are talking to them either. If she sees you flirting and talking with the other girls in class she will be the one trying to get your attention. Make her work for your time and attention. Remeber, you are the prize, not her. |
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| Author: | Lupin [ Mon Feb 11, 2008 9:13 pm ] |
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thanks guys this helps alot, cuz she does flirt with almost every dude in class so most of this stuff should work. thanks |
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