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Author:  confidencemagnet [ Fri May 17, 2013 3:11 pm ]
Post subject:  The Honesty Routine

Highly powerful. It's powerful because it either works really well or it doesn't. Your goal is to seek out a woman who likes your bold honesty.

You: What's up, I was over there and I was thinking, 'Let me go and talk to this attractive, interesting woman'. What's your name, sweetheart?
Her: (smiles and giggles) It's...
You: Listen, I really like your style, you dress the way I like my women to dress, and now I just wanna see if you're a woman who I would date. I can't stay long because I got some shit to do, so why don't you give me your number and we can talk and have a few laughs and shit.
Her:

The reason why I left her part out is because it can go either way. Some woman like a man who sees what he likes and goes for what he wants without hesitation. Some women appreciate that he's very honest and not into all the bullshit games. But other women may think he's too forward. Some women will think you're not presenting yourself as a challenge. If you're a shy guy, this is actually a good way to start approaching women. You treat it like a band aid... you just come out and say it. You don't expect any fireworks because it can go either way. You get over the fear of talking to women because you're talking to more women and you are getting instant results. Either they accept or they don't.

You are no longer confused about where you stand with a girl because she knows from day one what you want and what to expect. Some women appreciate an honest man. Other women want to be gamed. The women who appreciate an honest man may sleep with you a lot quicker. The women who wants to be gamed, may have game, and want to do a little "cat and mouse" bullshit with you.

Stop wasting your time and get straight to the point.

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri May 17, 2013 4:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The Honesty Routine

Honestly (pun intended),

GREAT post, but to me this is not a routine at all.

It's a Fucking Lifestyle!

Author:  confidencemagnet [ Sat May 18, 2013 12:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The Honesty Routine

I hear that. Going in bold makes your heart pump but when you actually do it, hit or miss, you feel good about yourself because you didn't pussy out

Author:  soulgood [ Sat May 18, 2013 2:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The Honesty Routine

ill rather stick to the method :D. my neighbour is like this and he is a nice guy you know average loks tall little blondish.. and most of the times he score but with chicks that are well...not that much attractive
but the hot ones he never gets them.

Author:  Donston [ Sat May 18, 2013 2:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The Honesty Routine

It can go to an even deeper level ... for example be honest on how you feel. Basically, be congruent on how you feel.

If you feel nervous ... you can open with ... "Hey, I feel slightly nervous. But, nonetheless I had to meet you because you are cute."
- A high percentage of the time, why most guys get rejected is because you are incongruent on how you feel.
- For example of using your opener ... if you open using a direct opener (similar to what you used) within milli seconds of seeing the girl ... you will come out congruent with your opener because it will come out spontaneous. But, if you waited like 10 minutes building up courage to approach the girl and you use the same opener ... the success percentage will go down because you will be incongruent, it will come out as a pick up line. But, again you can be congruent by being "honest" on how you feel.
- For example, if you see a girl and you wait 10 minutes to build up courage you can say, "Hey, I saw you and I've been building up courage to come talk to you because you are cute."

or

If you feel tired ... open how you would open when you are tired. Most novices would fake a to be energetic with their opener and use a fake smile ... which will fail because you are incongruent in how you feel.

or

Let's go with the controversial of smiling vs. not smiling.
- Most guys say you need to smile more ... or even fake the smile to get a certain reaction from the girl. Again, this will be incongruent and your success rate will go down. You are forcing a smile to pretend that you are feeling good within.
- The proper way is to first feel good inside you to make you smile. Either think of things that are funny to you or use any means to self amuse your self to generate a smile. For example, have you ever thought of something really funny and you couldn't help yourself laugh or smile? Where you can't hold the laughter and spectators are wondering why you are smiling/laughing? Basically, feel good inside first then smile. Don't smile to fake that you feel good inside.

Therefore, if you want to be honest ... be congruent on how you feel inside. This will align your thoughts, words, and actions and this is super attractive to girls! Girls will feel this aura around you and will come to you ^_^!

Muahahah,
Donston

Author:  ptown123 [ Thu May 23, 2013 8:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The Honesty Routine

direct seems to always come back. this is the best method for me.

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