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| Author: | andermax [ Wed Apr 17, 2013 2:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to freeze out nicely? |
I have completely over done it with a girl this week. We spent 4 days in a row seeing each other, 2 of which were by accident, but by the end of the day yesterday I think we were both bored of each other. We have made tentative plans to see each other in 4-5 days and I want to keep contact to a minimum so that I feel a bit more excited when I see her again. I think ignoring her messages and not keeping in contact would be detrimental to my efforts, as I would certainly consider dating this girl more seriously. Anyone have some good tips to keep her interested but not have to force humor and rapport on her every day until i see her? |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Apr 17, 2013 6:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to freeze out nicely? |
You are the one in control Quote: I want to keep contact to a minimum
Then just do THAT!
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| Author: | JaceRiot [ Mon Apr 22, 2013 7:47 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to freeze out nicely? |
How did it turn out? Freeze outs seem hard to pull off. Ive been talking to this girl I f closed. But she texts so often. I made the mistake of texting her too much. I wanted to demonstrate Im not just in it for just sex. But it feels like I need to try a freeze out. It has to be done smooth and Id like any tips with that. What about: "Hey not to be rude, but we're both really busy. Remember that initial spark and electricity we had? I dont ever wanna lose that. I dont think I can text so much everyday, it's not what I usually do. Let's savor the experience" Or something like that. Can you go that direct about it? So atleast she doenst hate you for not responding all of a sudden for days on end? |
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| Author: | andermax [ Mon Apr 22, 2013 1:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to freeze out nicely? |
It turned out really well. We spent the day together yesterday and all evening in bed with similar excitement to when we started. I didn't speak to her for about 2 and a half days and then when i did it was all 1 word answers and telling her I was busy, which I was, but I had to resist ducking out of a meal with friends to call her. By the time we actually spoke on the phone after about 4-5 days she was really keen to meet up and see what i had been up to. |
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| Author: | JaceRiot [ Tue Apr 23, 2013 2:51 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to freeze out nicely? |
Thats great! So four days is a good amount of time. Was it four days of no communication? Or did you still text her a little bit here and there? Also when you did meet up did she ask what you did? I was thinking about doing a couple of days of just no communication but making the first call really good. |
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