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Author:  Shazram [ Sat Mar 30, 2013 10:48 am ]
Post subject:  How to respond to this?
So I work in a cafe and get to practise routines on customers. It's called customer service!

Today this incident happened.

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HB9 comes in wearing a lock necklace! Discussion starts and I comment on her necklace, saying it looks like a bike lock. What I thought was a terrible Neg resulted in her telling me to unlock it, massive kino resulted (at work) where she told me the code and was asking me to unlock it. This is where she said...
'I purchased it from a sex shop' (a DHV)

HOW WOULD YOU RESPOND TO THIS?!??!

My response 'and when you walked in I thought you were a decent nice girl' resulted in the convo going sour and she walked away eventually. I had to work so I didn't care. I asked a co-worker and he said a response could have been 'I thought you got it from a $2 shop.'
Author:  wingintyme [ Mon Apr 01, 2013 6:21 am ]
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So I work in a cafe and get to practise routines on customers. It's called customer service!

Today this incident happened.

------

HB9 comes in wearing a lock necklace! Discussion starts and I comment on her necklace, saying it looks like a bike lock. What I thought was a terrible Neg resulted in her telling me to unlock it, massive kino resulted (at work) where she told me the code and was asking me to unlock it. This is where she said...
'I purchased it from a sex shop' (a DHV)

HOW WOULD YOU RESPOND TO THIS?!??!

My response 'and when you walked in I thought you were a decent nice girl' resulted in the convo going sour and she walked away eventually. I had to work so I didn't care. I asked a co-worker and he said a response could have been 'I thought you got it from a $2 shop.'
If you are at work and she is a customer you are in a situation where you don't need to get risky. Don't insult, don't neg, don't try to get too sexual back, at first.

Do you know of any sex shops in your area? We have one called cupids. They specialize in lingerie and there is a chain of about 5 stores within 30 miles. So if it were me, I would have said "cupids?" Then she answers, and hopefully you have a conversation. If it's not cupids "where, . oh where's that" If it's yes, say "that's cool they have some cool lingerie there" it helps to familiarize yourself with local shopping joints b/c you will find, when you can talk fashion they tend to like that
Author:  detox75 [ Mon Apr 01, 2013 6:43 am ]
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To be fair it sounds like some job you dont care too much about so hitting on customers seems like a fine idea, especially if they haven't told you to stop. It seems like your getting great practice.

so" I thought you were a decent nice girl' is pretty standard, thats a decent response, no worse then the $2 junk store" neg. The problem wasn't your response, what you should have done is persist and taken her getting salty as a shit test , whether it was one or not we will never know now. HB9's-10's will always massively shit test randoms with who have no verfied social value. Just be ready for it next time, your response was fine it was your non-persistence which could have been improved, just go right into the next script/routine ignoreing the shit test or laughing it off conrolling the frame.

As a side note , ive found the best strategy with chicks when they get overly ribald and sexual is to go over the top of them. Just be more sexual in a more understated, calm, composed way, this is a massive attractor because they use the sexualization to scare beta men and get an expected shocked reaction.
Author:  Muzz [ Mon Apr 01, 2013 8:50 pm ]
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Whenever a girl mentions a sex shop I like to point out the double standard there is. Girls get the most intricate vibrators and spend literally $80-200 on them and that is normal. If a guy gets anything from there he is a creepy pervert. Then I say how me and my ex used to go in there and get different things and whenever I went there the parking lot would always have 10-20 cars in it but when I walked inside there was no one in there. It always confused me. Then I found out...
Author:  Shazram [ Tue Apr 02, 2013 9:41 pm ]
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To be fair it sounds like some job you dont care too much about so hitting on customers seems like a fine idea, especially if they haven't told you to stop. It seems like your getting great practice.
I'm pretty lucky that the boss is also my best friend, and he considers what I do 'customer service.' A lot of the guys are work with are naturals and some are just starting to learn Game. It's an interesting predicament.

These are great responses guys!
Author:  dan achiles [ Wed Apr 03, 2013 3:26 am ]
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Well I'm new to this but the "I got it in a sex shop" indicated a "salty" response. Wish I knew what that was, on the spot like that tough to come up with a good comeback. I think Detox75 is on the money.
Author:  puaninja [ Thu Apr 04, 2013 1:32 pm ]
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It was an "ioi" not a "dhv".

It's the age old problem. You are engaging in this witty repartee with a girl and trying to be sarcastic and humorous and invariably your flirtacious jokes gets misconstrued as an insult or creepy comment. Then the girl rolls her eyes and goes on her way.

It's hard to come up with the best response on the fly, especially when the conversation starts leading down a road that you had no idea it was going down. You could always revert back to some type of canned material, that way you know it's safe and effective. Or you could just go sexual, since she technically went sexual first. But you were at work, so you'd have to take into account how much you want to commit to gaming a girl and if you had any intention of actually number closing her.
Author:  worldrunner [ Thu Apr 04, 2013 2:16 pm ]
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girl: 'I purchased it from a sex shop'

guy:' come on! don't play with me, I'm sure that girls with such an innocent face as yours, never go to those places '
Author:  Mr. Marville [ Thu May 30, 2013 8:55 am ]
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It was an "ioi" not a "dhv".

It's the age old problem. You are engaging in this witty repartee with a girl and trying to be sarcastic and humorous and invariably your flirtacious jokes gets misconstrued as an insult or creepy comment. Then the girl rolls her eyes and goes on her way.

It's hard to come up with the best response on the fly, especially when the conversation starts leading down a road that you had no idea it was going down. You could always revert back to some type of canned material, that way you know it's safe and effective. Or you could just go sexual, since she technically went sexual first. But you were at work, so you'd have to take into account how much you want to commit to gaming a girl and if you had any intention of actually number closing her.
PUA Ninja man, we miss you! Please come back to life.
Author:  robke136 [ Sun Jun 02, 2013 1:45 pm ]
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She was clearly out there and in the mood to have some fun. Basically by asking you this question she is 'checking' you out.
It is a bit like a shit test, but one with a lot bigger reward if you pass it.
She is out there to have fun and felt like looking for a guy who could join her. If she asks a direct question like this, she can read from your reaction what kind of guy you are. If you are really alpha, you are used to these comments you will react in a whole other way than an AFC. This is the kind of guy she was looking for and the question is her way of screening for it.
You missed out on an incredible lay dude ;)

So what could you have answered? - I don't know. I don't think there is a 'correct' written answer to this question. There does is a correct body language which would go with anything you'd response. This is a sense of playfulness, but not biting yet. Let her work for it and keep it fun. A bit like normal pick up, but more sexual.
Author:  Pokee [ Mon Jun 03, 2013 6:08 pm ]
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Reply: and you're wearing it around your neck so that means either your chastity belt is unlocked or your throat is locked. Either way, gimme your number.

You should bring that over to my place, I've got a monster under my bed. We could lock it up.
Author:  VanArt [ Fri Jun 07, 2013 5:26 am ]
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Reply: and you're wearing it around your neck so that means either your chastity belt is unlocked or your throat is locked. Either way, gimme your number.

You should bring that over to my place, I've got a monster under my bed. We could lock it up.
Salute to that!
That's my cup of tea!
Author:  Italianman [ Mon Jun 10, 2013 8:22 pm ]
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I bet it isn't the only thing you bought in the sexy shop.
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