Now that I think about it, this is exactly how the girl im dating tries to treat me....... She just doesnt know im trying to date 3 other girls at the same time.
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| Author: | hollywoodinpa [ Tue Jan 29, 2008 6:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | HOW TO BECOME A WOMENS DRUG |
Here's my disclaimer - I don't advocate any of these to be used by anyone who wants a healthy and happy relationship - but these are the tactics that "jerks" use so it's always good to be familiar with these. And it's also good to take these to heart if you recognize dependence on a chick in yourself and you find HER pulling these tactics. I'll just let you guys know right off that this is a twisted post, although as I have been able to model guys that get women obsessed with them, there are common tactics that they pull. And there may be some learning in it, as evil as some of the tactics may be. Now, of course some of this can be taken to extreme by those who are less benevolent and irresponsible than most of us, so proceed with caution... because you can create a stalker and an obsessed chick this way. Use with discretion! Part 1: Drug Dependence - Here Is The Criteria: 1) Tolerance This is where someone gets used to a certain drug and it takes more and more to get the same high. 2) Withdrawal This is where someone goes into physical and/or psychological distress from not having the drug. 3) Larger and Longer This is where the person cant control how much they take and how long they take it. The drug controls THEM. 4) Unsuccessful cut down This is where they want to cut down, but they find that they cant. 5) Time spent They invest a huge portion of their energy in obtaining the drug as well as getting over the initial highs. 6) Reduced social, occupational or recreational activities This is where they forego other parts of their lives for the drug. 7) Continued use despite knowledge of psychological or physical problems This is where they can see that the drug controls them and gives them problems and causes them to have to sacrifice other parts of their lives, but they DO IT ANYWAY. Part 2: The 10 Steps To Becoming Her Drug! 1) Initially, Give, Give and Give Like a drug dealer, to start with, give her the time of her life. Give it generously to start with. I'm not saying to not make her earn it... just make it easy for her. 2) Fulfill a NEED It could be an emotional need, it could be a physical need, it could be a need for security, it could be a need for FUN - give her the time of her life... Make her feel good. To find the need, just do a value elicitation for it. "What would you NEED to have in your life to be happy?" and "So how would you know that you had this?" and then "And what would it be like for you to be able to have this, where you can have it in this way? (then repeat her description)" Give her DRAMA! With this comes the extreme highs and lows. Don't introduce the "lows" just yet... save that for later when you start to do the withdrawal phase. 3) Make yourself a HABIT for her Become a regular part of her daily routine. I've noticed that chicks that weren't even into me initially succumed to the HABIT when I became a part of their daily life. Paint a picture of you ALWAYS being there for her. Remember, the strongest human instinct is not survival... its HABIT! INSTILL yourself into her "Personal Narrative". This is the way that she see's her present and her future expectations. 4) Be unpredictable So that she never knows what to expect. 5) Transition to making her earn what you give her If she asks anything of you, ALWAYS ask for something in return, no matter how small... just as a TOKEN of value. This starts the process of her having to earn what you give her. What you ask of her (as small as it may be) puts more value on what you give her and lets her know that you ain't for free! 6) Use both positive and negative reinforcement Take away the good stuff when she does things that you don't like (and if there aren't any, just make some up!) and reward her when she does stuff you DO like. You NEED to do both. You can also use a "propulsion mechanism" where you have her "move toward" reward, and "move away from" punishment. Also get MAD... and show it! When she deserves it especially. The make up can be well worth it! With guys that get chicks obsessed with them, there is often a "cycle" that starts with tension to explosion to make up to honeymoon to tension to explosion to make up to honeymoon... and on and on it goes. They often don't even recognize this cycle. 7) Start to crowd out other parts of her life I know this is evil, but this is the way alot of guys do it that get women obsessed with them. They compete with her friends, guy friends, family... they ISOLATE her from the rest of the world. The use of this evil tactic is up to your own discretion and conscience! This is where you become her WORLD! Let her get the impression that you are in demand This increases your perceived value in her eyes. 9) Start to take it away Start to make yourself more scarce. But give 110% when she does have you. Let her have withdrawal. Don't call for a few days, don't touch her when you are with her for one evening. Resist her advances if she wants to have sex for the evening. 10) Alternate Now between Hot and Cold Giving and taking it away, Push and Pull. - Make it about her doing things for YOU now. About her trying to keep YOU. Ask her to do things for you. LET her do things for you. The more she gives, the more you ask for. - Of course you have to give some as well, but just not as much. |
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| Author: | CougarHunter [ Wed Jan 30, 2008 2:07 pm ] |
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MAN i love your style!!!! make more post! YOur the kind of Guru i need! |
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| Author: | Chiggs [ Thu Mar 13, 2008 10:41 pm ] |
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Where's number 8? And i personally would stop at six. You're a Pick-Up Artist, you're here to give her the time of her life, to be the most satisfying lover you can. You don't want to be her cocaine. Maybe it's just me, but i really don't like clingy girls. Which is kind of what this sounds like it's trying to make her. |
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| Author: | Nine [ Sat Apr 12, 2008 3:37 pm ] |
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You're right, this is evil. Especially since we learned the number one rule the first day we started, "Leave her better than you found her." Like Yttrium said, you're supposed to give her a good time. Nine |
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| Author: | Killians [ Sun Apr 13, 2008 12:09 am ] |
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Thats not being a pick up artist. Those tactics are used in manipulation. If you want a healthy relationship (whether it be friends, sexual, etc)you wouldn't isolate her from people. Just remember girls WANT "nice guys". |
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| Author: | cold reader [ Mon Apr 21, 2008 3:46 pm ] |
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I don't know man, this sounds kind of wierd. I mean it's cool and all but you can really screw someone up. |
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| Author: | Chino Kapone [ Mon Apr 21, 2008 4:31 pm ] |
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I have watched this in action. This is pretty much how one of my good friends works it with every girl he is with. I guess thats why hes slept with 150+ women.... |
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| Author: | El'>Presidente<&quo [ Wed Apr 23, 2008 1:17 pm ] |
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My girlfriend is like that..... and I tell you something... it sucks. No really... it sucks. But do it anyway if you feel like it. Its so Evil... I love it! |
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| Author: | Simpua [ Wed Apr 23, 2008 2:24 pm ] |
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I think this violates what being a PUA is about. It's similar to using "The Door" NLP pattern... something which Ross Jeffries himself does not condone in. |
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| Author: | Chino Kapone [ Wed Apr 23, 2008 3:42 pm ] |
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Now that I think about it, this is exactly how the girl im dating tries to treat me....... She just doesnt know im trying to date 3 other girls at the same time.
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| Author: | Castnett [ Mon Apr 28, 2008 12:05 am ] |
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Although fairly immoral, I kinda like what you're saying here, Hollywood.
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| Author: | LAMaverick [ Tue Apr 29, 2008 5:51 am ] |
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It sounds like a great idea for someone you want to marry or a girlfriend. But for anyother kind of girl, it seems like you're destroying them, like drugs. I mean I don't want to ruin a girl's life, I just wanna have sex with her. |
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| Author: | Waffle [ Wed Apr 30, 2008 7:34 pm ] |
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Quote: It sounds like a great idea for someone you want to marry or a girlfriend. But for anyother kind of girl, it seems like you're destroying them, like drugs. I mean I don't want to ruin a girl's life, I just wanna have sex with her.
Crap! thats what I was going to say. 
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| Author: | Castnett [ Mon May 12, 2008 4:58 am ] |
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Bump this shit - let's hear some more opinions... |
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| Author: | madals [ Tue May 13, 2008 11:24 am ] |
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I think people who dislike this are looking at it in the wrong way. Tbh, its up to YOU how far you take this. The whole isolating her doesnt have to be as extreem as "locking her in a room 24/7". You can ajust this method to how you feel comfortable. Ofc, dont get me wrong, i dont 100% agree with this. Although, if done carfully it might not be as bad as some of you are making out. Consider it the line between having a bottle of wine 1 evening and becoming a alcoholic. So therefore, the PUA needs to messure how far to take this. Does that make sense? |
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