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| Author: | Newb4lyfe [ Tue Feb 12, 2013 2:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Trying to keep a girl interested from long distance. |
Okay so i had a friend that went to school with me who moved, but she visited the last weekend and stayed over my house so we fucked. What I'm trying to do is get her to be into me as she is now, even though she lives maybe like 4 hours away, for a long while, at least until she visits again. Right now shes at the point where she always wants to talk to me and text me, but more than half the time i ignore her texts and she calls me to get me to answer. I played it off like i don't want to hurt her cause i know it'd be hard on her if we tried to be long distance or something. I think she uses facebook a bit and i just started using it more, (probably going to start using facebook to advertise myself, got this whole plan with my friend to try to meet more women, and then use facebook to advertise to the women we can't meet.) So basically what I'm at right now is trying to figure the best way to do this cause i might not see her for up to 2 months, i know if i go all lovey dovey or whatever all the time she'll get bored, but if i don't answer enough she'll stop trying. Accepting all ideas! |
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| Author: | Newb4lyfe [ Tue Feb 12, 2013 5:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Trying to keep a girl interested from long distance. |
Update: Shes currently almost obsessing over me, i just want her to stay the way she feels now. Should i just completely freeze her out until she says shes coming back? |
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| Author: | MavenPhaseshift [ Tue Feb 12, 2013 10:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Trying to keep a girl interested from long distance. |
Personal I won'tn't freeze her out. She is going the way you want. Do you want a relationship with her or f buddy. Don't go lovey, on her treat her the same. as you were before. Joking and having with her. she wants you not a lame version of you. She wants the crazy guy who she grew up with. I feel into this trap witha girl a while back. I treated her different so she acted different. Treat her the same as always and she will act the same. |
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| Author: | Newb4lyfe [ Wed Feb 13, 2013 2:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Trying to keep a girl interested from long distance. |
Quote: Personal I won'tn't freeze her out. She is going the way you want. Do you want a relationship with her or f buddy. Don't go lovey, on her treat her the same. as you were before. Joking and having with her. she wants you not a lame version of you. She wants the crazy guy who she grew up with. I feel into this trap witha girl a while back. I treated her different so she acted different.
I mean i always treated her kind of bad, and I've always been slow to answer her texts. It's just now that i have something to lose it's different for me. I didn't even know she was visiting until the day before and I had no intentions for anything to happen.Treat her the same as always and she will act the same. But man that makes a lot of sense, Thanks. I'm definitely putting that into consideration. |
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| Author: | MavenPhaseshift [ Wed Feb 13, 2013 2:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Trying to keep a girl interested from long distance. |
You treated her kinda bad or teased her. Big difference, Girls like to be teased and have fun with it. not being put on a pedistal. But if you treat her like nothing she will become that Nothing to you. |
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| Author: | Newb4lyfe [ Thu Feb 14, 2013 7:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Trying to keep a girl interested from long distance. |
Quote: You treated her kinda bad or teased her. Big difference, Girls like to be teased and have fun with it. not being put on a pedistal. But if you treat her like nothing she will become that Nothing to you.
Yeah man, I'm going to treat her average, but still kind of short like i did, and then throw in some romantic stuff every once in a while to pull her in again. Thanks for your help, definitely made an impact |
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