Hi guys,

This is a sticking point I've been having lately. I'm basically insinuating that I'm the catch, I'm the selector, and that the girl should be chasing me. But sometimes it just seems like the girl straight up doesn't get it. For instance, I opened with this conversation on OKC:

Me: You look rich. Will you buy me stuff? Do you know how to treat a gentleman?

Her: I look rich?

Me: Dazzling dresswear, exotic locales...you definitely seem like sugar mama material. If we could leave for anywhere in the world tomorrow, where would you take us?

Her: Um, no. Never would I be anyones sugar mama.

...uh. okay. Could this be a shit test? I feel like if I back down in any way then I'm giving her the power. But I also don't want to come off like a jackass who really wants to make this girl his sugar mama.

What would you say? Thanks.

Straight up, you're going in way to strong. You're telling her she needs to work for you. You shouldn't vocalize it directly. Someone who has true value in a group never needs to say it aloud. I work it into my demeanour, habits and lifestyle. Straight up, the best way to show real value is to be able to give her a compliment and keep your composure.

Nothing says "chase me" better than a fully confident, balls on "you're beautiful".

I opened up a 10 at a club by turning around, seeing her for the first time and saying "You're absolutely gorgeous" She smiled, brushed her feet together and said thank you. I nodded and followed up with "My name is -enjoi-." It worked beautifully - K-close and number close. It's all about presentation.

I've found that the super cocky approach, where you are basically talking shit out of your ass, doesn't work. The reason is because the woman doesn't feel like she has any power. I used to think that I could put them down and act like I was the shit (eventhough I knew I wasn't) and she'd somehow be attracted to this bold confidence. But they can tell when it's just bullshit, especially when you aren't making it fun for them. Also, most women want a guy to provide for them, so when you start talking about them being a sugar momma it's like the exact opposite of what they actually want. I'd recommend new material bro.