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Author:  GoLarge [ Tue Nov 13, 2012 12:51 pm ]
Post subject:  I getting advice from a guy but it sounds terribly bad. help
They guy trying to help me is over six feet tall and thinks hes god's gift to women. I dont know if hes trying to sabotage me, he thinks hes trying to help me, or Im just too way beyond afc to understand his advice.

His tips are as such.

"Tell her shes beautiful". Thats his fucking opener after the 3 second rule is employed. first thing out of the mouth. It sounds cheesy just thinking it.

Kissing girls on the cheek goodbye, fucking awkward.

"Can I buy you a drink"

So, this guy actually got pussy and girls at least seem to be interested in him. What can I say, hes had more success than me.

What say you guys? Follow this man? Or find another wing/tutor.
Hes also an asshole when he doesnt get his way.

Fuck that, Im not gonna padawan to some crybaby. Anyways, what are your thoughts on his advice.
Author:  Snarg [ Tue Nov 13, 2012 1:10 pm ]
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That'll work if you want to play an enormous numbers game. If you approach 1000 women with that shit, I'm sure one will want to fuck.

There are better ways though, and as you might have expected, his advice is garbage. Ignore him and start learning from these forums.
Author:  pumpington [ Tue Nov 13, 2012 2:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I getting advice from a guy but it sounds terribly bad. help
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They guy trying to help me is over six feet tall and thinks hes god's gift to women. I dont know if hes trying to sabotage me, he thinks hes trying to help me, or Im just too way beyond afc to understand his advice.
you sound a bit like you don't want his help and that you are not his biggest fan
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His tips are as such.

"Tell her shes beautiful". Thats his fucking opener after the 3 second rule is employed. first thing out of the mouth. It sounds cheesy just thinking it.

Kissing girls on the cheek goodbye, fucking awkward.

"Can I buy you a drink"

So, this guy actually got pussy and girls at least seem to be interested in him. What can I say, hes had more success than me.

What say you guys? Follow this man? Or find another wing/tutor.
Hes also an asshole when he doesnt get his way.
have you even thought to maybe... field test the advice?

that might work out a little better for you then asking what do I do and complaining before even giving it a shot?

if you have, what have been your set backs vs likes to the plan of action?
how is his advice working out for you? have you even utulized it?

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Fuck that, Im not gonna padawan to some crybaby. Anyways, what are your thoughts on his advice.
why don't you tell him you don't want his advice if he is forcing it on you or what ever?

if he is not forcing it on you, why are you so butthurt, don't ask if you don't want it

as far as what to think about it,

there is absolutely nothing wrong with what he told you, the problem is, all you have is an opener and a compliance test, and you haven't given any reason to believe through your post that he has given you a context as to ''why'' you do these things, or what your coarse of action is, what your objectives are, what the purpose is behind those actions etc.

under certain pretexts what he is telling you could be very very advanced, or it could be very very retarded, it really depends on WHY, more then WHAT

and opener is almost 100% irrelivant, this as advice in it's self is about as useful as... DUDE just go up and say hi, girls love that sort of thing, you'll get laid for sure

effective communication is effective communication reguardless of how it begins, and why you are communicating and what you are communicating of why will result in how you communicate, this is far more important then little tidbits of ''what''

not only that but there is so much more to banging girls then ''what to say'', if you are needy, physically unattractive, dress poorly, smell bad, have no friends, are not fun to be around, are quiet and timid in nature, have 0 experience with socializing with women and act like you don't know what a vagina is for with no idea of what you want to accomplish in the interaction or what sort of girl/relationship you are looking for, you will fail almost certainly no matter what anyone tells you just about every time
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