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| Author: | Kain1984 [ Wed Oct 31, 2012 7:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How did I screw up this one? Feedback and advice wanted |
Ok. So I was in this "employees gathering" event arranged by the company I work. There was a great number of employees from all over the country. So I met this girl (HB8 I would say) there with virtually perfect game. Started convo at the hotel reception que and sat next to her at dinner time. The game was literally perfect. Smart lines, witty talk, awesome bantering great responses and the chemistry was so good there was obvious sexual tension because we both enjoyed the conversation at a ridiculous level and had nice IOIs. Hell at every response her smile was getting wider and wider she couldn't believe the conversational chemistry At this point I was thinking :"I really need to escalate, make sure I don't drown in rapport" By some events twist, a paper ended up in her hands and she was putting tick signs at it. Like marking an exam. So here's the chat that followed and my attempt to introduce some sexual tension me: ticking? It seems the teacher inside you is surfacing her: indeed I like this one me: If you were my teacher I would probably wait to see you with a see through dress in class her: You're trying too hard I was stunned by this line. Where the hell did it come from? It was a statement not even a question. I'm not sure if that was a shit test but it completely crumbled my confidence and my game went to hell. Next thing you know she was talking to some other guy (lame small talk "where are you from etc" and nothing else) and was treating me disrespectfully as if she figured out my agenda to hit on her and now I'm not worth shit. In an attempt to save my face I was talking to other girls (in front of her face as well), but I was so frustrated for losing this one as she was really pretty and I was really into her the way we were bantering. At my next visit to talk to her, things got awkward to the bone and she kept bombarding me with shit tests that I didn't have ready answers for because of that crushed confidence. Naturally I didn't talk to her again as I saw the situation fucked up. Please I need some advice as I'm so good at bantering and rapport and I have so much trouble sealing the deal. It has happened to me so many times. How should I had handled this one? was it a shit test? what do i respond? Input will be most appreciated |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Wed Oct 31, 2012 7:34 pm ] |
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Question. WTF is this? "If you were my teacher I would probably wait to see you with a see through dress in class" I assume you meant to write "want", but it still makes no sense. Perhaps a better line would've been "Man, I wish teachers looked like you when I was in school." Basically, you went sexual too early and blew it with a very lame line. Some pua's are masters at escalating early and going sexual, but I think it helps if you start all of your interactions that way. Sinn always goes sexual from the very beginning, that way his routine is congruent from the opener to the bedroom. But you started out non-sexual, builing rapport, then jumped ahead to seduction without doing too much in the way of attraction building. Personally, I don't like going sexual early on, and I won't start getting sexual until I've at least done a moderate amount of kino. I would take all of this into consideration next time. |
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| Author: | iceg001 [ Fri Nov 02, 2012 2:52 am ] |
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grrrrrrrrr you should of moved in for the k-close after that at least her saying you are trying too hard means you already got her attention enough to move on to physical |
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| Author: | Karizmatic [ Fri Nov 02, 2012 2:41 pm ] |
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Firstly, that line sucked. Like, a lot! Secondly, why are you trying to bed someone you just met at an employee gathering so quickly? I think if a girl is constantly holding hoops, take them from her. If she's constantly throwing shit tests, evade, counter and respond appropriately. If she continues to do so, keep going with it. You'll reach one of two destinations: 1) She hooks up with you, the end. 2) She doesn't hook up with you, but you learned to improve your game drastically and now have another female in your life. Who more than likely has hot friends she'd be happy to introduce you to. Think out the sex box you filthy boy. You could have used your rapport and vibes with her to escalate your value with everyone in the room. Take it on the chin, lesson learned, just keep going. |
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| Author: | Crypto [ Fri Nov 02, 2012 2:45 pm ] |
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"You're trying too hard" Basically, this said "you are kinda needy"! The line about a see through dress was about 1 sentence too many! Sometimes is it better to just STFU and let some silence into your conversations...Silence makes people feel awkward and that builds tension. As soon as she broke your confidence she instinctively tested you for quality. You were unable to recover so she lost the attraction. Peace... |
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| Author: | Mantis- [ Sat Nov 03, 2012 12:33 pm ] |
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Quote: grrrrrrrrr you should of moved in for the k-close after that at least
First I thought: Yeah right, like that will work.her saying you are trying too hard means you already got her attention enough to move on to physical Then I read the 2nd part and I was like: Ok, hes right, thats exactly how my game runs now I think of it. Gj on it. Trying hard? Yup. Go in for kclose. I can imagine it won't always work. I usually search to get verbally rejected before I kclose. The fact that she stays with you but rejects you kind of means alot. Especially when they know what you're up to. |
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