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| Author: | mcmanimal85 [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 6:38 am ] |
| Post subject: | Text no response leads to flake on hang out...HELP |
Hey whats up fellas ? I was texting with HB7 for going on a week and was varying the response time, keeping the subjects light and fun playing cocky funny. I kept a pretty strong frame and was having fun. We made plans to hang out this Saturday and get coffee before she headed to work. I was texting her Friday night and she stopped responding to my texts all together. Saturday came around and still never heard from her so we did not go to coffee. I'm not sure what to do, freeze her out ? The text exchange that lead to us not hanging out is below. she didnt respond to my text from the night before but we were supposed to hang out soon so I wanted to maintain the conversation and keep the attraction going. Friday night Me: hows my second favorite HB7 doing today ?? ; p HB7: who is your first favorite ?? Me: I know you want to be my favorite HB7, but your gona have to work harder to impress me : ) 6 hours later Me: How's work been today ? |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 7:50 am ] |
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give inviting her out to do something more fun then coffee a shot, something she would really enjoy, or frame coffee as one hell of an exciting experience (assuming she trusts you and you two have a good amount of rapport) |
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| Author: | 0uch [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 9:00 am ] |
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Get a life. Your trying to to invite a girl out to coffee you barely know. In her mind, your already boring. |
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| Author: | mcmanimal85 [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 1:23 pm ] |
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Quote: Get a life. Your trying to to invite a girl out to coffee you barely know. In her mind, your already boring.
Ouch, that cuts deep when a guy from an Internet forum tells me to get a life, but thanks for trying to be a d1ckhead buddy. As far as the coffee date, it was her idea to meet up for coffee. She was bragging about all the great coffee places around where she lived and asked me meet up for coffee before she goes to work. Any ideas on what techniques to use to move past this with HB7 ? Thanks.
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| Author: | User13247 [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 3:00 pm ] |
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It sounds like you are the one being frozen out. It seems to me that from here on out you have two ways to continue: a) act like nothing happened, wait for her to contact you and focus your attention elsewhere; or b) apologize for your rudeness, i.e. getting down on your knees and groveling for her forgiveness. I don't know enough about your relationship to recommend anything with certainty, but if what you said was true, I'd go for option a. If it wasn't, than your lie just backfired in your face. |
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| Author: | mcmanimal85 [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 3:36 pm ] |
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Ya Timo I am the one being frozen out, but none the less option B is not an option at all and would compromise keeping a strong frame. I'll chalk it up to experimenting with the game. Thanks for the input. |
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| Author: | StarRacer [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 3:56 pm ] |
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You screwed up with that little jokes. Guys can't say stuff like that. Just move on it happens. |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 4:19 pm ] |
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mcmanimal85 stop being so sensitive some of the most helpful posters are pretty harsh. You are trying to raise attraction via text, as always, dumb idea, especially after a week. You can eb the most clever texter in the world but the implied frame of this interaction is working against you. As a sidenote you are letting her control the agenda which is inherently unattractive to woman. BTW Quote: Me: How's work been today ?
Never, ever send this text until you have fucked the girl and even then I wouldn't use it. Do you really think she thinks you give two shits about her work day? What are you communicating when you pretend you do?
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| Author: | chakara [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 4:28 pm ] |
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You may have to let this one go...I always said it's a numbers game, and as soon as one gets cold you should have others you are working on at the same time...also there is nothing wrong with buying a book to improve your game, I am not trying to spam you I'm just being honest, I had to buy books; and I'm sure most Pick up artist had to...check out http://mysterypua-pua.com/ there is a free eBook offered, and there are NY Best sellers that cost money but if you was studing to be an engineer it would be the same thing...let me know how it goes all replys on this forum goes straight to my cell phone, I love this forum. |
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| Author: | mcmanimal85 [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 4:32 pm ] |
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Quote: mcmanimal85 stop being so sensitive some of the most helpful posters are pretty harsh.
Detox75 Thanks for the good word man. Ya that lame ass text was the wrong move in the situation for sure.
You are trying to raise attraction via text, as always, dumb idea, especially after a week. You can eb the most clever texter in the world but the implied frame of this interaction is working against you. As a sidenote you are letting her control the agenda which is inherently unattractive to woman. BTW Quote: Me: How's work been today ?
Never, ever send this text until you have fucked the girl and even then I wouldn't use it. Do you really think she thinks you give two shits about her work day? What are you communicating when you pretend you do? |
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| Author: | mcmanimal85 [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 5:17 am ] |
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Quote: You may have to let this one go...I always said it's a numbers game, and as soon as one gets cold you should have others you are working on at the same time...also there is nothing wrong with buying a book to improve your game, I am not trying to spam you I'm just being honest, I had to buy books; and I'm sure most Pick up artist had to...check out http://mysterypua-pua.com/ there is a free eBook offered, and there are NY Best sellers that cost money but if you was studing to be an engineer it would be the same thing...let me know how it goes all replys on this forum goes straight to my cell phone, I love this forum.
Chakara thanks for the input hombre. It does seem to be a numbers game for sure, but also the fact that my game is pretty rusty too.
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| Author: | chakara [ Sat Nov 03, 2012 7:42 pm ] |
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no problem, I know how you feel. just keep going for it man, and once you get one to the text level, don't get comfortable with her, keep getting more girls to the point where if one falls off, your texting 7-9 others, then you will see success. |
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| Author: | royhuijian [ Mon Nov 05, 2012 5:39 am ] |
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