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Author:  shinobi's_disciple [ Fri Sep 28, 2012 2:14 am ]
Post subject:  How do you build Attraction?
As everyone knows, the first phase for getting the girl is the attraction phase, and this is a phase I struggle a lot with. I know we're meant to DHV, show you're pre-selected etc. Problem is, how can I stick around after the opener long enough for her to actually want to listen?

What I really want are routines that build attraction or lines that have DHV spikes. Comfort phase is pretty simple, especially when you use the cube test (works like a charm) but obviously, you have to wait further down the line to get to that stuff. I want something similar for the attraction phase.

Does anyone know any lines/routines that will build attraction? Help would be much appreciated!

Thanks guys :)
Shinobi
Author:  se7in [ Fri Sep 28, 2012 3:02 am ]
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The question is why should you stick around. Ask her those questions. Challenge her. Make her FEEL like her looks arnt enough. The rest will be natural.
Author:  Hijo de Puta [ Fri Sep 28, 2012 4:40 am ]
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The question is why should you stick around. Ask her those questions. Challenge her. Make her FEEL like her looks arnt enough. The rest will be natural.
Couldn't have put it better. Make her chase you. The best way to display higher value isn't even to neg a lot, its to put the ball in her court, make her feel like she has to impress you. Ask her something interesting about herself. She'll may say "what?" in which case you say, "what theres nothing interesting about you?" and turn as if you're gonna leave. She'll grab you.[/quote]
Author:  puaninja [ Fri Sep 28, 2012 1:58 pm ]
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You need to develop a frame in which she has to seek your validation and approval. You don't necessarily have to tell them they are boring and make them prove to you they are not. Instead, you can tell them they seem very interesting and continue asking them related questions in which they'll have to come up with interesting answers in order to continue to impress you.

You can also ask them questions that you know the answer to and they probably don't. Then when they say they don't know, you can then act like you jogged your memory and tell them what the answer is. That's a subtle little trick that DLVs them and DHVs you. I asked a girl once where Sydney is in Australia, since she said she wanted to go there. She wasn't sure. Then I said that I think it is on the southeast coast, then showed her a map of it on my phone. Now she is regarding me as an authority on geography, and she'll want to try to make up for not knowing that answer and impress me in some other way as our interaction continues. That alone won't build attraction, but you can parlay that into rapport building, and eventually kino escalation.
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