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Author:  skunk123454321 [ Mon Jan 14, 2008 2:41 am ]
Post subject:  More of a Social Question
I know this girl, and i recently found out something i dont care about, but she would be embarrased about. she doesnt know i know about it, would it be positive or negative if i brought it up and said i didnt carea bout it, in the long run (long-term relattionship is what i hope for)
Author:  blazer [ Mon Jan 14, 2008 3:30 am ]
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If it is something which causes her great embarassment I wouldn't mention it. If you did tell her she would also ask how you found out about it (if it's a secret); if you found out about it from her friends, that could turn her against them (not good) and possibly you as well. If you do get in a relationship with her, in time she would probably bring it up.
Author:  elkid27 [ Mon Jan 14, 2008 3:47 am ]
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Yea i agree with everybody else id just keep my mouth shut about it. If she brings it up, then talk about it, but other than that, forget you knew.
Author:  skunk123454321 [ Mon Jan 14, 2008 3:47 am ]
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no its not anything she entrusted, but something some1 else (not a friend of hers anymore) found out about and told everyone, just it missed me somehow, and it seems she is hoping that i dont find out, because whenever I bring up this guy (who told every1) she'll just say she hates him because hes a loser then channge the subject
Author:  blazer [ Tue Jan 15, 2008 5:40 pm ]
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no its not anything she entrusted, but something some1 else (not a friend of hers anymore) found out about and told everyone, just it missed me somehow, and it seems she is hoping that i dont find out, because whenever I bring up this guy (who told every1) she'll just say she hates him because hes a loser then channge the subject
By her changing the subject and being uncomfortable with it; it sounds like something you should avoid. I can see how saying you're ok with it may build comfort, but I would avoid it altogether, don't mention it again (unless it comes up). The idea is to build comfort and also portray a sense or fun by bringing up a negative subject it puts a downer on things.
Author:  skunk123454321 [ Wed Jan 16, 2008 1:38 am ]
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true
Author:  Rumble [ Wed Jan 16, 2008 2:58 am ]
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now im curious as to what it was...haha. care to share?
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