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Author:  ThomasThatLegend [ Fri Sep 14, 2012 3:54 am ]
Post subject:  Good ways to keep an upcoming date interested

I have a month exactly from today, and i need to build more attraction with this girl, i have built enough already but I want her on me. Been a while since I've consulted this forum, because I've been trying to do things myself.

and No, i'm not searching anything bro. :)

Author:  ThomasThatLegend [ Sun Sep 16, 2012 1:00 am ]
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57 views no ideas? please help doods

Author:  Quiche [ Mon Sep 17, 2012 12:04 am ]
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Man I have issues keeping texting game interesting if there's as much as half a week in between. Usually I just ignore until one day before and ask if she's excited to see me again.

Not very useful, I know, but you did ask for replies :shock:
I guess just improving your texting game would help a lot in as much as a month. Also not mentioning the date too often seems like a good idea.

Author:  Reflex B [ Mon Sep 17, 2012 2:09 am ]
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In this situation the best way to get her extremely excited what you should do is seed, and if you don't know what seeding is, it's when you build up her anticipation for the date by indiscreetly sliding in statements to get her hyped, so if you were going to some coffee shop that isn't Starbucks, you'd say something like "(the place your going to take her)'s Mocha's so good it makes heaven look like trash, but maybe I shouldn't take you here, I don't want to make someone else an addict. ;)" or something along those lines, and the same applies to wherever you're taking her, take a small detail about it and amplify it to the point that it's as exciting as meeting Denzel Washington. The more you do it, the more excited she'll be... Good luck friend

Author:  Etherimp [ Mon Sep 17, 2012 5:11 am ]
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Escalate out of texting ASAP and use the time to start getting to know her on a deeper level. Texting builds virtually no rapport, where as phone conversations do. If you talk on the phone you will be building rapport and increasing her comfort level/attraction. She'll start to get really excited about meeting you if things go well on the phone.

Author:  Ilustrado [ Mon Sep 17, 2012 7:29 am ]
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In this situation the best way to get her extremely excited what you should do is seed, and if you don't know what seeding is, it's when you build up her anticipation for the date by indiscreetly sliding in statements to get her hyped, so if you were going to some coffee shop that isn't Starbucks, you'd say something like "(the place your going to take her)'s Mocha's so good it makes heaven look like trash, but maybe I shouldn't take you here, I don't want to make someone else an addict. ;)" or something along those lines, and the same applies to wherever you're taking her, take a small detail about it and amplify it to the point that it's as exciting as meeting Denzel Washington. The more you do it, the more excited she'll be... Good luck friend
I can see this backfiring pretty badly - it's kinda like the straw-man-technique only working against you. She'll have huge expectations for what the date will be like and might end up being disappointed when she realises it isn't as good as expected

Author:  Quiche [ Mon Sep 17, 2012 9:49 am ]
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In this situation the best way to get her extremely excited what you should do is seed, and if you don't know what seeding is, it's when you build up her anticipation for the date by indiscreetly sliding in statements to get her hyped, so if you were going to some coffee shop that isn't Starbucks, you'd say something like "(the place your going to take her)'s Mocha's so good it makes heaven look like trash, but maybe I shouldn't take you here, I don't want to make someone else an addict. ;)" or something along those lines, and the same applies to wherever you're taking her, take a small detail about it and amplify it to the point that it's as exciting as meeting Denzel Washington. The more you do it, the more excited she'll be... Good luck friend
I can see this backfiring pretty badly - it's kinda like the straw-man-technique only working against you. She'll have huge expectations for what the date will be like and might end up being disappointed when she realises it isn't as good as expected
Well you can still address that in a cf fashion. Most important thing is that she actually shows up. If you got strong game and she's interested in you it shouldn't really matter that you're not sipping coffee on a cloud made out of puppies (although I can imagine it would help :) ).

On the up side, you do have a whole month to plan!

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