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| Author: | Magpies11 [ Sun Aug 26, 2012 5:44 am ] |
| Post subject: | She playing hard to get? Do I move on or try freeze out |
Have hooked up with girl multiple times, pretty much each time I've been out at a club or party and she's been there. Only been on one date with her though. First night I hooked up with her sex was involved (like one night stand) next day she gave me her number (we have mutual friends) and we started taking constantly this was like 6months ago since then we have hooked up numerous times and one of the times she asked me to sleep the night with her spooning and kissing no sex. Been told by numerous people that she's a flirt when she goes out and that I should be careful. Ended up heading catching up with her the other week when she was out with her friends as she had a leaving party for overseas for one month. At the end of the night was waiting for my lift home she had came up gave me kiss and hug and said she will see me when she gets back. I got a text from her later that night saying that she hopes I got home safe. I replied to her I did, asked of she got home safe too... No reply.. Didn't think much of it.. The next day I sent her a text saying that I hope she has a nice holiday.. No reply again.. She messaged me wishing me a happy birthday. I replied saying thanks and for her to have a safe flight and again she didn't reply.. She will be back in three weeks I also want to tell her that I am into her. Do I just go out and tell her that I like her or listen to the other people that I shouldn't go with her? Does she like me or is she just playing me? People always tell me to go with my gut but I've done that in the past and been hurt multiple times. Has anyone gone through a situation like this, If so please help!! |
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| Author: | GKS [ Sun Aug 26, 2012 8:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She playing hard to get? Do I move on or try freeze out |
Quote: Have hooked up with girl multiple times, pretty much each time I've been out at a club or party and she's been there. Only been on one date with her though. First night I hooked up with her sex was involved (like one night stand) next day she gave me her number (we have mutual friends) and we started taking constantly this was like 6months ago since then we have hooked up numerous times and one of the times she asked me to sleep the night with her spooning and kissing no sex. Been told by numerous people that she's a flirt when she goes out and that I should be careful. Ended up heading catching up with her the other week when she was out with her friends as she had a leaving party for overseas for one month. At the end of the night was waiting for my lift home she had came up gave me kiss and hug and said she will see me when she gets back. I got a text from her later that night saying that she hopes I got home safe. I replied to her I did, asked of she got home safe too... No reply.. Didn't think much of it.. The next day I sent her a text saying that I hope she has a nice holiday.. No reply again.. She messaged me wishing me a happy birthday. I replied saying thanks and for her to have a safe flight and again she didn't reply..
Calm down. She's on vacation.... give her a break. Try to think about it. Overseas... her phone might not working, she might not have internet. And fuck, if I'm on vacation I wouldn't have time to sit around texting some girl way back home instead of enjoy my time off. Don't be needy. Let her enjoy her vacation.
She will be back in three weeks I also want to tell her that I am into her. Do I just go out and tell her that I like her or listen to the other people that I shouldn't go with her? Does she like me or is she just playing me? People always tell me to go with my gut but I've done that in the past and been hurt multiple times. Has anyone gone through a situation like this, If so please help!! |
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| Author: | Kwik [ Mon Aug 27, 2012 7:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She playing hard to get? Do I move on or try freeze out |
Quote: She will be back in three weeks I also want to tell her that I am into her. Do I just go out and tell her that I like her or listen to the other people that I shouldn't go with her? Does she like me or is she just playing me?
People always tell me to go with my gut but I've done that in the past and been hurt multiple times. Has anyone gone through a situation like this, If so please help!! Sorry man, but you have the mindset of a total AFC with awful oneitis regarding this girl... "Tell her I like her..." Seriously?? Get your inner game worked out man. It's one girl, so don't invest so much of your time and effort into her. Even though you've slept with her it sounds like she's lost a lot of interest in you or else you wouldn't have the problem of her not returning texts, so my personal advice is to go out and meet some new people and start having fun instead of worrying about how this one person feels about you... -Kwik |
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